Can you make a man ejaculate in his sleep?

**stressed** · 05-06-2010 04:39 AM

Only reason I ask is because it's 4.30 a.m. at the moment, I spent over an hour performing oral on him (after he nagged for it and despite that he was already too tired from work) but he eventually fell asleep and started snoring. I kept trying anyway (he's told me he doesn't mind, so it's nothing against his will) but without result.

Now I'm too awake to try and sleep, kind of sexually frustrated and feel a bit like a failure. I know I'm going to feel better tomorrow and will see it from a reasonable point of view, but this has already happened a number of times already, so I wonder, is it possible to make men ejaculate in their sleep? And don't give me a porn-clip example, because those are fake...

**Mes T** · 05-06-2010 04:53 AM

Well guys have wet dreams so it's possible... But those are from mental stimulation I guess, rather than physical.

I'm thinking yes it's possible.

Jeez he fell asleep? After nagging you to do it? How do you put up with that lady!

**PandaPaws** · 05-06-2010 04:58 AM

Originally Posted by Mes_T

Well guys have wet dreams so it's possible... But those are from mental stimulation I guess, rather than physical.

I'm thinking yes it's possible.

Jeez he fell asleep? After nagging you to do it? How do you put up with that lady!

+1 on all of the above!

**stressed** · 05-06-2010 05:09 AM

Well, I thought of exactly the same, but like you said, mental stimulation is involved in it, so maybe just an erection and whatever means of stimulation are not enough (which also makes me wonder how the heck can a man fall asleep with an erection).

I don't know, I'm puzzled. It was kind of lame, to be honest.

Hmmm... 5 a.m. and counting...

**Mes T** · 05-06-2010 05:12 AM

But maybe like... if you stimulate him physically, that'll end up transferring to his dreams where he can start thinking about erotic things. Kind of like sometimes when your alarm goes off and you're still asleep, you start dreaming about explosions or something with a similar sound.

Haha. Just a thought.

**Texinator** · 05-06-2010 05:23 AM

Bite him in the weenie and then say 'Guess it wasn't exciting enough for you when I was only using my tongue!'

I reckon you should be able to get him off even if he's asleep. But nobody's ever played with Junior while I was knocked out*, so I can't speak from personal experience.

*at least not that I know of. Hmm..

**stressed** · 05-06-2010 05:29 AM

It has to be possible, it is in theory, but it doesn't seem so. Not that it's possible while he is awake in the first place (he always uses his own hand -up to the point I find it repetitive and it's not even me the one ejaculating-), but I thought there could be a chance.

I also thought it could make him dream about something relative, but he's probably too tired and nothing can wake him up at the moment.

I haven't had such problems with ex'es before so this is rather insulting.

Pfffft

**Texinator** · 05-06-2010 05:46 AM

Originally Posted by stressed

feel a bit like a failure

Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. He was just too tired and should have gone straight to bed instead of asking for oral.

**Hopeless Dork** · 05-06-2010 05:50 AM

I would be a little insulted if my guy fell asleep, but in all honesty... I've fallen asleep masturbating before so I know if you're tired its entirely possible lol.

**cuff** · 05-06-2010 05:55 AM

That hasn't happened to me since I was a young kid. But, that was only because I wasn't masturbating or in a relationship yet. My body had to release it somehow, so it found a way. But, if it can happen to a guy just from his mind, even when he's young, maybe it's possible with your stimulation.