Can Kegels be bad for the man ?

**Cassius** · 05-07-2010 06:26 PM

Hi the girl I am with is tight as it is and she does Kegels too. Using her muscles is great for her, she seems to get a lot of pleasure only using those muscles just by having me inside her and so do I because she knows how to ripple them and stuff. So I imagine she will want to keep doing that.
I feel her grip is very very strong, but not painful most of the times, however when she is done with me it feels sore and sometimes at the tip there are like red spots.

Do any women on here have experience with kegels ? Can it be bad if she gets too strong ?

**LanaBear** · 05-07-2010 07:20 PM

That's a good question... I do kegels, hubby comments that I'm tight, but not painful. But I'm guessing that it wouldn't be comfortable having your penis squeezed really tight.

**Cassius** · 05-07-2010 07:50 PM

Well she usually she does not squeeze it really tight, unless she wants me to get to "give up" in her submission hold. But during regular sex I do feel a strong pressure (strong pleasure also) and it is sore with red spots. Did anybody observe that ? The res spots go away though.

**WildChild** · 05-08-2010 04:45 AM

Kegels should give her not just strength but control. She needs to relax a bit.

**Cassius** · 05-08-2010 05:09 AM

Well she has control, she can like ripple them, I assume that takes a lot of control.

**Texinator** · 05-08-2010 05:33 AM

Unless she goes Lorene Bobbitt on you with her pelvic muscles, I reckon it shouldn't be a problem. But if you find it becoming too painful then ask her to ease up a bit.

**Little** · 05-08-2010 03:22 PM

Sex is about give and take - if she's being too rough on you, ask her to tone it down, just as you would expect her to if it were you being rough.
As far as your penis being sore, I have had that happen (to my partners) before. It just means you need to rest a while before the next time. If your girl wants next time to come sooner, tell her to please take it easy on your buddy

**Mes T** · 05-10-2010 08:35 PM

"Hey honey, how about tonight we Kegel and tomorrow I'll show you what I've got up MY sleeve (or, down my pants, as the case may be). RAWR!!!"

Translation: We'll do it your way some of the times, and my way others, because frankly my johnson needs a rest.