Thread: Do you think Sex is Immature?

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

They want sex all the time - but are they getting it all the time? Someone who doesn't get enough to eat and is hungry will think about food all the time.

I agree with that. I thinking someone not getting as much sex as they want, might think about it a little more than average... in that same vein... someone who doesn't want sex as much is likely to think a partner that wants it more thinks about it too much, wants it too much etc.

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

They want sex all the time - but are they getting it all the time? Someone who doesn't get enough to eat and is hungry will think about food all the time.

Originally Posted by KMonte85

I think immature people can have sex.

I think sex can be had PRE-maturely.

But, no I do not believe that sex is immature. It is normal to have a sex drive, it is normal to think about sex, it is normal to have sex. And anyone that tells you different is either trying to downplay their lack of a sex drive, or attempting to control yours... neither of which are very normal, let alone acceptable.

Agreed and well said.

I'm glad to see we're all on the same page.

I was hoping that at least one person would think otherwise though, because I'm worried for a friend of mine.

She is really shy when it comes to having any kind of sex and she always feels awkward afterward.

She doesn't talk about sex to anyone but me, and even then it's always a very dry conversation. And then if I bring up something from my sex life she will make me feel like I'm the naive one, for being comfortable talking about it.

I've tried explaining to her that having sexual desires is a part of being human, and it's nothing to shy away from, let alone stop talking about, but she won't hear it.

It just makes me sad because I'e known her for years and she's a great friend. Sex is an important part of my life and she makes me feel childish for making it that important.