i know lots of ppll will disagree with this..but it really works!
if the first guy is nice...takes u places and buys u stuff...keep him but don't have sex with him!
if the second guy is good in bed...keep him for sex and don't bother going out with him!
yeah, your right, people will disagree with you, at least this one does.Originally Posted by BloodyMoonLight
There will always be boundries, but making love is so different, than having sex, let's face it. CW
YUP going to MAJORLY Disagree with this! If you are looking for a serious relationship it is NOT the way to go!
"When one door closes, another opens. But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us."
Helen Keller
Your whole attitude on this pretty much disgusts me.
I can only hope and pray that these guys will make a dash for it. They certainly dont deserve to be treated like this.
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - Chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming WOO-HOO what a ride!!"
"I dream about being with you forever." - Twilight
Are they aware of your aversion to monogamy? If not, you could tell them, & then your decision might not be necessary, ie they
might not take too kindly to a. being cheated on b. having this deception being discussed on the internet.
There's a few things wrong with that statement BloodyMoonLight.
1. Your using people would you like to be used?
2. Your playing games... Would you like a guy to play games with you?
3. Your treading on dangerous ground... When both find out... Your own life, could be in danger, have you thought about that?
4. Morals. A small 6 letter word..
And vicen, that's twice you've mentioned discussing things over an internet, in this instance, let's hope BloodyMoonLight isn't a nickname known and one of those boys, reads her favourites, history and this post, because in that instance, your right, dangerous comment to be read by a "boyfriend" .... or both....
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
How old are you? I think age has a lot with teaching a younger guy sexual. I might be wrong but from my experiences. Also are you sure with the other guy, its not just because he is a rock star? I was watching this movie call "Funny People", didn't watch the whole movie , but Adam Sandler role in the movie was this famous comedian, these two girls were friends and even though one had bf they both slept with him because he was famous. I know its only a movie, but being in the industry i have seen those type of things happen. So make sure its not the fame.
how old are you? how long have you been with the guy thats a jerk? hes a rock star alright.. and probably a legend in his own mind. you think he has sweet moments.. but how often is it for him to get what he wants?
this should not even be a hard decision at all. listen to how you describe the first guy... gorgeous, every girls wet dream, pompous.. rock star
now listen to how you describe the other guy.. sweet, caring, affectionate
seems like you want someone to validate you.. maybe you feel guilty for screwing them both and are looking for someone to tell you its ok. if you dont feel guilty for screwing them both... you should. dont confuse "dating" with looking for a good time.
Last edited by WildChild; 07-05-2010 at 04:52 PM. Reason: sexually judgemental
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