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    Default How to give a head that guys really enjoy?

    Hi,
    I have problem with Bj. I don't know how to do it properly, my man never cum!

    There are a lot of different tips and techniques, but what really works?

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    We have probably 30 +threads on this. Why not do a search and see what has been suggested?
    In the meantime - what does he do for you that is equivalent?
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    Agreed with the above poster... learning how to make head good for other guys won't make it necessarily good for YOUR guy. He might have different needs in order to orgasm. Sometimes a guy, that is polite and appreciative won't look a gift horse in the mouth and tell you if your not exactly doing what it takes for them.... they don't want to sound rude or unnappreciative or worse yet have you throw your hands up and say 'fine, if i'm so terrible at it ... I won't do it'. So given their fear to come on out and say that may be happening... Its important to ask. Take your time when doing it next time, try different techniqu es with your mouth and hands and stop and ask him which feels better... this or this... giving 2 examples... make a fun game of it while learning what pleases him most.

    Its important that when a guy is giving the physical symptoms that he's getting close, to keep doing what your doing. Think of yourself and when you are about to orgasm if someone stopped a few seconds before and went a different way you might lose it. Try variety during it, with little bursts of keeping the touches CONSISTANT. And when he's close... keep consistant on what you are doing til he's there.

    But like WC says... I hope he has an equal interest in YOUR pleasure
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork View Post
    ...Its important that when a guy is giving the physical symptoms that he's getting close, to keep doing what your doing. Think of yourself and when you are about to orgasm if someone stopped a few seconds before and went a different way you might lose it. Try variety during it, with little bursts of keeping the touches CONSISTANT. And when he's close... keep consistant on what you are doing til he's there.
    Very key point here...

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    Always try to start by touching gently the whole shaft and balls with the back of your hand or fingertips. This heightens the sensitivity of the penis. It doesn't have to be in your mouth all the time. Lick over the whole area gently. Especially the underside of the shaft and the head. Roll your tongue around the head.Pop the penis into your mouth occasionally to give me a sigh. When you want him to come, just roll his foreskin (If he has one) up and down inside your mouth, or, pull it back and gently roll your mouth up and down his whole length over and over until he ejaculates. You can gently stroke his balls whilst doing this, especially underneath them. This is a very sensitive area for us guys.

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    It would also help if the shrubbery is kept well, so that you can have easier access to the more sensitive parts without dealing with the "floss". LOL.
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    Yes, I know that there is 30+ threads about BJ, but why not put all important thing on one place?

    What positions you usually use?

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    Quote Originally Posted by caterpillar79 View Post
    It would also help if the shrubbery is kept well, so that you can have easier access to the more sensitive parts without dealing with the "floss". LOL.
    Lush...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luckygirl69 View Post
    Yes, I know that there is 30+ threads about BJ, but why not put all important thing on one place?
    Because even if it was all in one place, everyone would still ask the same question rather than reading the previous threads because they think their question is different.
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    I agree with caterpillar79. Shave your guy (if he isn't already) and then you have better access. I think when you're shaved your penis and sac are more sensitive.
    The shaving can be part of the foreplay.
    (you don't have to shave it all off of he feels awkward about it. some guys don't like standing out in the sports changing room later on!)

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