Thread: Toy Virgin

My boyfriend hints about us trying sex toys - I'm up for trying them, however I'm not sure what type of toys to start with? what will please both of us? Any tips would help thank you.

I would start with a "bullet" or "egg" type toy they vibrate. Holding it on your clit while he is in you is oh so nice. You can hold it against your cheek while performing oral on him. There are soooo many ways to use it. DO NOT insert though unless it ti designed for that. I describe a bullet vibe as and entry level drug.. Er um Toy

One problem with vibrating toys is that they can desensitize you to the point where you need them to orgasm. (not saying this happens to everyone, but it did to my wife). Other than that - there are so many different types of toys that you are best off browsing an online catalog and seeing what looks like fun.

Thanks for the replied. I'd like some type of toy we can both enjoy?
Also I'd like to spice things up a little any ideas??? dressing maybe?? again wouldn't not no were to start.

Dressing up maybe?

a "C" ring with nubs in the "clitoris region" would be great for you both. It enhances/prolongs a mans erection and would stimulate you as he thrusts. You can get them where you can add a bullet or go without extra vibrations.

Quoting Rcoreyus "One problem with vibrating toys is that they can desensitize you to the point where you need them to orgasm. (not saying this happens to everyone, but it did to my wife). Other than that - there are so many different types of toys that you are best off browsing an online catalog and seeing what looks like fun. "


While I can see how this can happen I enjoy the orgasms my DH gives me much more than those from my toys. The orgasms are completely different. I would chose my DH over my toys any day and I really like my toys

Dressing up depends on what sort of fantasies you share. You can do a lot without actually buying much of anything. A winter coat with almost nothing underneath and you are a slutty hooker. A scarf on you head and an eye-patch and you are a pirate. Naked with a necklace and you hands tied behind your back and you are a captive princess. Wrapped in a sheet you are a roman empress - or slave girl. I think the costumes just act as a prop for acting out a fantasy.

As far as shared toys - again there are lots of options. A dildo can let you try DP with him. There are various small vibrators that are easy to use during sex. If you are into BDSM, there are lots of options for tying someone up / spanking / whips / belts.

The issue my wife and I had with vibrators was that we started using them regularly during sex, and eventually she couldn't orgasm without one.