Thread: He's not willing so what should i do??

Do what thomas told you but don't over do it. If he feels like you are pressuring him into doing something he's not yet ready to do then it will make him uncomfortable. You both have to be ready for you to enjoy the experince. And if you are a virgin that may be a factor. Wait for the right moment and until then don't over think it. Take care of yourself until then to avoid becoming sexually frustrated. Because that can make matters worst. If you feel really turned on by him that will help ease the sexual tention so your thinking about it as much. And less likely to presure him into it without realizing it.

Yeah our relationship is really good, we've both always told each other absolutely everything and we've always been there for each other through all the bad times which i suppose is what makes us work really well now. And thomas i'm pretty sure ill be coming back to you for your advice, it really helps.
CW yes i am a virgin and i actually haven't experienced any kind of foreplay or sexual thing, i'm a real newbie lol. And like you said with learning about each others bodies and everything, well yeah i really want to do that and you saying about him respecting me really has put a smile on my face to be honest so thank you
Basket case, i really dont want to pressure him, i'd feel so awful if i did, i know he'd never do something like that to me and i'll really try not to over do it, knowing me it'll probably all go wrong and ill make a fool of myself but oh well at least we'll have something to laugh about. With what you said about being frustrated well i did get a little like that but its passed and im fine now.
Thank you all so much for your comments x