Thread: Are all girls like this?

Girls seem to find it laughable and guys all take the .. about it, but it's actually really hard to deal with and leads to suicidal tendencies.

I have had three girls make fun of me because of my penis. The first was when I was really young. I was only 14 and I was a late bloomer so I always figured that it would grow and I ignored it. The second when I was 17, she didn't really make fun of it she just laughed when she saw it. I didn't end up doing anything with her because it hurt my feelings. And now I have been seeing this girl for about a month and she laughed at it yesterday when we were going to have sex for the first time.

I'm feeling like crud right now because of this and it's really sickening. I find it sad that people are so shallow but what can you do? I'm 19 and it's only like 4 or 4.5 inches erect. It sucks because I really love girls but I'm tired of being made fun of, and believe me if I knew these girls were going to act like this then I wouldn't have been dating them in the first place.

No all girls are not like that. Those that are are just as shallow as guys who put girls down because they have what is considered small breasts.

If a girl is making fun of your "package" she really doesn't care about YOU. Someone that is mature and really cares about you will not make fun of you because they know that size truly doesn't matter. It's not the size, it's do you know how to use it.

The laughter could be coming from a total surprise rather than intentionally trying to make fun of you.
Some people assume that because you are built in a certain way, you must hang in a certain way.
Well. This is not true, and we have had few threads on a similar topic.

The best way to deal with this is to talk about it up front.
If indeed you are in a good relationship, you will overcome this.

Keep in mind there will always be some level of curiosity.
Whether you are well hung or not.
Assuming you have proper qualities that catch a lady's attention, there should not be not too much worry about.

I'd like also to add that since you are aware of the issue, you could use your other skills, to still manage to have a decent, even a proper session -- skipping the details...no need to get into that, I suppose you get the drift.

Good luck.

The giggling probably has nothing to with your size but more to do with the fact they are looking at a penis. People laugh when they are nervous... and seeing a penis can be awkward... whether its big or small or anything in between. Especially if those girls were your same age and inexperienced... they probably didn't care about your size -- and just giggled due to nerves.

Your size is average and nothing unusual, I think maybe you are a little sensitive and so you are reading more into their giggles than they are even meaning.

There is plenty to worry about it in this world, dont worry about things you cannot change

Suicidal thoughts are the biggest killer of young men (more that car crashes etc). Governments never want to face up to this cos its too hard to sort out. I had unhappy thoughts when I was young and sometimes even now.

Not all women are like this although the proportion is greater in younger girls, IMO they have been sold on the man who can give them everything. Older women know more about life and what they really value in a man, their man.

The laughter is most probably a mix of your anxiety and their nervousness.

There is a saying:
Size matters, what you do with it matters more and what you do with your tongue matters most. If you can get a girl to near sexual frenzy before you've got you pants off it really isnt going to matter.

So I suggest you study technique. In my experiance more women cum from clitteral stimulation than penatration. So study up your technique, believe in yourself.

A true carring relationship this will not matter, if at all it did in the first place

Sometimes laughing is a sign if nervousness, but i am sure it hurt all the same.
Size doesnt matter, no matter how many times you hear it, you dont feel better huh?
But it really is the truth and a decent girl who gets you for you will not matter.

Its a shame in this day and age its still such a widespread topic, a lot of it, i reckon is conifdence. You should try to be a little mopre confident, this is what you have and you should enjoy using it! Feel no shame, if its any consolation, my bf and i have worked well for years with his thingy. And its no secret he is not as well endowed as other men, but he uses it very well and i love it all the same!

Because i am also attracted to his personality more so than his looks!

So i would dust yourself down, take a step back and feel proud of what you have, because out there buddy is a girl who will treat you and your thingy, the right way.
Good luckxxx

You hit the nail on the head when you say 'girls'. Women (real women) would never laugh. Some women are 'size queens' and have no interest in guys of average, or less, endowment and they may well miss out on a great guy for such a superficial reason.

Unfortunately at your age most of the females you meet have probably not had much exposusre to 'the real thing' and their preceptions of what is 'normal' is coloured by the media. Not much you can do about that I'm afraid.

You will never be able to determine someone's reaction (altho if you wait until you've got to know them quite well you may have a better idea), but the age of the females who have caused you such pain is definitely the factor here due to inexperience and falso expectations.

Once you find someone who treats you with respect don't let the past dampen your confidence. The most sensitive part of a vagina (Gspot) is only a short way inside so a 'big one' isn't going to give any better stimulation, it's a matter of learning the right angle/position to achieve this (and every woman is different). As already advised, if you wait until she's had her orgasm, her vagina will be more sensitive/aroused and you'll be fine

Don't let the immaturity of the girls you've been with to date colour your confidence.