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  1. 06-20-2010 08:05 PM #1
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    Ok so since my last post,me and my husband have gotten so much better,emotionally and sexually. Were both trying now! Anyways,I love trying different positions but I've always only been able to orgasm on top. Any way I can change that?
    Also,I noticed with most of the things we did the same,I started tearing,which never happened before! What would cause that to start all of a sudden?
    And sometimes when ever he goes to deep it hurts me,could that be caused by not having sex for awhile or something to stop immediately as soon as it hurts or maybe if we keep trying it'll stop hurting so bad?
    Sorry for so many questions,and thanks in advance for any responses!
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    If he's going deep, he could be hitting your cervix, which is very uncomfortable.

    Do you stay wet enough during sex? Maybe try some lube to make sure things stay well lubricated down there.

    You may be able to change in which positions you can orgasm with, the more relaxed and comfortable you become with it. Doggy style is a good position, IMO. Also, even if you are not on top, don't be afraid to incorporate some manual stimulation to your clit, he can do it or you can. That can help an orgasm right along.
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    Anyways,I love trying different positions but I've always only been able to orgasm on top. Any way I can change that?
    Keep trying other positions and make sure you are completely aroused.

    I noticed with most of the things we did the same,I started tearing,which never happened before! What would cause that to start all of a sudden?
    Lack of lubrication from your own body or lack of lube from a KY bottle.

    And sometimes when ever he goes to deep it hurts me,could that be caused by not having sex for awhile or something to stop immediately as soon as it hurts or maybe if we keep trying it'll stop hurting so bad?
    Going deep means there is a greater chance of him hitting your cervix which hurts, try telling him to not go as far in. And make sure the lubrication is always there.
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    Well,its never a problem on the wet factor.. and playing with my clit always makes my leg twitch and just doesent feel that great
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    If the pain on penetration is something new, and it's been a while since you two last had sex, there could be other factors that are best determined by a doctor.
    Get checked!
    For example, my wife had a (benign) fibroid tumor that caused her pain ( when it was contacted...) and interfered with our sex lives for several years. Doctor told her those were not uncommon.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Texasred View Post
    my wife had a (benign) fibroid tumor that caused her pain ( when it was contacted...)... Doctor told her those were not uncommon.
    Mine did too. And it probably affected our sex life for years, but we didn't know it.

    Definitely get checked by an OB/gyn. Probably something going on in there.
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