Thread: how often do couples have sex?? the truth!

Travis ... bro....

You're not being creative enough, MAKE time, FIND Time, PLAN time if you must... have grandma take the kiddies once a week for a few hours; whatever it takes, but don't let this become the norm bro, or you will fight like heck to get it back, because your body will just get used to being statified with it once a month. Also, you're not doing your wife any favors by allowing this to happen.

Don't fall into this trap. Not only is your happiness at stake, but your long term relationship with her is at stake. Read some of the posts here and see what happens when guys let it go and accept that they are happy with once a month; it's not pretty, and again, not easy to dig yourself out of it either.

Some women here have said they hate it when their guy masterbates... I disagree to a point - If they masterbate to where it has taken the place of their relationship - then YES - there is a problem; but on the other hand (no pun intended ), I've heard many professionals state that the more a man cums (materbation or intercourse) the more he will want to cum, and the more his body will not only desire it, but be ready for it. So in some cases, and again as long as it's not taking the place of intimacy, it's a good thing.

So, the moral of the story is "don't let your sex drive fall into reverse, keep it reving at full throttle". Only you can make the time for yourselves, it wont just come to be on its own.

no its a matter that she cant take much more then that with the gear god gave me. and a few other minor things. lol but i thank you for the input

Sex is more about the romance before hand. If she comes home from work and has to prepare a meal then she will not find that sexy. You need to help her feel sexy. I used to say one of the things that turned me on was my man saying " honey I cleaned the house and ran a bath for you.". If she doesn't feel like a sexy lover then what can you expect.

Originally Posted by pincrlgrl

Sex is more about the romance before hand. If she comes home from work and has to prepare a meal then she will not find that sexy. You need to help her feel sexy. I used to say one of the things that turned me on was my man saying " honey I cleaned the house and ran a bath for you.". If she doesn't feel like a sexy lover then what can you expect.

By far the most erotic thing my husband does is cook dinner. If he's cooking dinner, I immediately want to have sex with him. He cooks, plates dinner, and then leaves it covered while we run upstairs and "work up an appetite." He figured out that cooking every day=sex every day. Simple logic.

4-5 times a week.