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    So, I always make sure that I'm clean through and through before doing the deed with my boyfriend. However, he's always had a problem giving oral sex, not with just me...with past girlfriends as well. He tells me that no matter how clean I am, in a matter of minutes there is a garlicky/oniony aftertaste that he complains about. I always make sure never to ask him for oral if I'm just coming off my period, if I just inhaled greasy, unhealthy food,if I haven't bathed, or if I haven't eaten lots of citrus fruits, but for some reason i can't seem to escape this garlicky/oniony aftertaste that makes me embarrassed to even ask.

    can I use products like Summers Eve down there to make it better?

    what's a good regimen to make sure that my..nana has a sweet, fresh taste??

    thanks.

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    If you keep yourself clean (and it sounds like you do) it shouldn't be a problem. Yes there is a taste, but most men don't object. Do you give him oral - there is certainly a "taste" there as well. I think he is being much to picky.

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    The taste of a woman, reasonably clean, isn't a problem for a man who likes to pleasure his woman orally. However, some men cannot get their head around giving oral sex. As such, they will have objection even to the most benign of flavors. Does your bf have objections to other things, such as sweaty sex?

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    It's actually not factual that every woman has a "taste"... and at the end of the day, spending time on the "outside" is as good as continuing, inner.. but it's a start, ask him to just orally lick you on the outside and allow him to get used to that...

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    There is no avoiding the fact that women have a 'taste' no matter how clean they are or how well they eat. If this is an issue for him then there is nothing he can do about it b/c the taste isn't going to go away.The taste is there on the outside as well as the inside as the vagina secretes moisture all the time and it can't all stay 'inside'.

    He can either 'grin and bear it' to give you pleasure or he can miss out on being a selfless lover. It's his choice.

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    You could do creative things with chocolate syrup, honey, whipped cream, or other "toppings", but the truth of the matter is, you really should not put anyting like that inside of you, lest you place yourself at risk for a yeast infection. There are some flavored lubes that would be OK to use in this manner, tho'.

    From my perspective, as long as you practice normal sanitary practices (like bathing) that is all you should need to do. Your guy sounds like he is being too picky to me. Yes women have a taste and an odor, but I have found that once I get into it, the taste and odor goes away. Maybe it is my saliva washing it away or maybe I just get used to it. By any means, it is quite enjoyable for me to pleasure my SO in that manner. You may want to try a 69 position, where you pleasure each other orally simultaneously. It's hard for a man to concentrate on anything except the pleasure he is receiving in that situation.

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