Thread: My partners over sex drive is killing us in need of advise please!

Yikes, I could do with 3 times a day and I'm over 50. At your age I would wear my guy out - 5 or 6 times in a day and a night. Then we might take a break of a day or two, although I would have been up for at least once the next day.
Hate to break it to you darlin' but if you are finding once every three days excessive and if you can "ignore" your sex drive, you don't have a high sex drive, but it's nice that you have the idea of having one. Perhaps we can help you acquire one?

Its all about keeping it juicy, making everything throughout your day a form of foreplay and keeping yourself at a low level of arousal all the time. I think of it as being on simmer. All the little things add up, for example, wearing clothing that makes you feel good, not because it's fashionable but because you love the color, texture, the way the fabirc feels against your skin and how the garment fits your body. If you are in your own place you din't have to have expensive, fancy stuff but select things that you feel good having around. I love thrift stores, I'll buy A plate just because I fall for the color or shape and know I will enjoy using it. Invest in good high count sheets that feel good against your skin, thick absorbent towels - you don't need a lot - you can only use one at a time.

Keep fresh flowers in your home and soothing music - no shoes indoors, they track in dirt an your home should be a sacred place. All this is part of staying in touch with your sensuality. When you eat, don't just put stuff in your mouth, chew it and swallow it. Experience it, really taste it, feel it and appreciate it. Bless every glass of water you drink, say thank you. Be aware of colors, textures, feeling, lighting, in everything you do. Go without as often as you can; without shoes, bra, underwear - especially undies, no one but you has to know. Forget panty hose and get a garter and stockings.

Now on to your biggest sexual center, your mind. Keeping it juicy is about attitude. Think sensuous throughout your day. Take time to stretch - not an awkward shrug, but like a cat. Be body aware, don't just smear on some chapstick, glide it, lick your lips. Think about touching and being touched. I've no doubt that in various work situations I've left people wondering because while I'm working, talking to people, going about my day, part of my mind is thinking about the lingering feel of a kiss, touch or just plain f-ing (don't over do and have an accident). It takes some time but you can bring yourself to a point where you can be ready pretty much any time, any place. Of course having a caring, sensuous man in your life can make this infinitely easier and more fun.