Thread: Asking for sex.....when is enough, enough?

You know what pi$$es me off more than anything. I am 100% sure if the roles were reversed this would be one of the biggest issues mankind had ever encountered.

If I woke up one morning and no longer felt the urge to get up 3 or 4 times a night to tend to the baby, or decided I had had enough of cleaning etc she would feel neglected, abandoned and all sorts of things pointing to the fact that I did not care about her or the relationship. When I make it clear how feel about being neglected I get nothing but "it's all about you isn't it" and the discussion ends.

Not only is it now an issue of regaining some form of sex life, she now needs to find a way back into the relationship and to win back some respect.

FWIW, I don't care that she doesn't want to have sex. I'm concerned she doesn't care that she doesn't want to have sex.

Rant over.

I feel you completely. I'm going through the same thing. My girl said she never feels like I'm happy I tell her I just want her too at least try. She had sex w me and did great things and I feel so in love but right b4 that I was kissing her and pleasing her and she said " i don't want sex" which killed the mood. I stopped and she was mad bc she said I was dissapointed. I told her she can do other things to defer me from sex but doesn't have to kill me like that.