Not doing it well.advice pleaseee

**lolade** · 07-04-2010 06:09 AM

what am i doing wrong?sex is not flowing good as it dos in those films.

**lolade** · 07-04-2010 06:42 AM

the thing really is,am now in luv with dis angel and am afraid am going to not give her good sex when the time comes...not if,when..and its around the corner..its like i really dont know how to do it...honestly...and av don it like many times bt i really tink i didnt do it well.i wasnt bothered cos i didnt fancy dos girls but now i really want to giv my girl real good sweet pleasure.and when u don do it well,it kinda hurts the relationship

**ItsASecret** · 07-04-2010 09:00 AM

Just be patient and avoid trying to copy any pornos you have seen. They are paid to oooo and ahhh. Ask her what she enjoys when you are in the moment, ask her if she feels comfortable, ask her if she would like to try anything. Whatever you do, do not try to make it into a big production. Slow patient sex is the best way to go if it is going to be either of you's first time.

**lolade** · 07-05-2010 10:36 AM

tanx alot.bt durin missionary,do i lay completely on her?won't it make her uncomfortable?i read just today that downward curve of the penis doesnt hit the g-spot.unlike the upward curve penis?

**Futureboy** · 07-05-2010 12:42 PM

Don't worry about the G Spot, there are men and women still in search all there lives and even some 'scientists' dont think it exists.

I dont really believe in good or bad in bed, I believe in compatabiliy.

To start dont worry too much about orgasms and all that just concentrate on whether it 'feels right'

I think you are having some performance anxiety. I have found the best way to combat this is to bank some browny point early. ie ensure she is well ahead of you in the horny stakes, got down on her. If you can make her cum like this she's probably not going to be too upset if you cant make her cum will the 'old fella'

I my experiance women are very different to how much stimmulation they need to cum from just sliding it in a few times to a monster sension with your best moves.

My best advice is: be gentle, dont rush, listen to her (harder than it sounds), put her first, be confident, be in comfortable surroundings, remeber if she likes you too she is probably having all the same thoughts you are. If she doesnt cum to elsely when you are in inside gentlly pick her hand up and place this in her clit and hopefully she will take the hint.

No dont crash her. Personally I would kneel while she is on her back and lift her legs up. Lots of penetration and you wont crush her, only thing is its difficult to kiss like this so make sure you et plenty of kissing in early and change position to kiss her. Dont thrash around on her she's you girl not a porn star

Relax have fun

**lolade** · 07-06-2010 03:41 AM

futureboy and itsasecret,av taken ur words to heart

**jns** · 07-06-2010 08:35 AM

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