G-SPOT does NOT exist! (no offense, though)

**pocari** · 07-04-2010 09:28 AM

Well, at least, to me, I have never felt a GSPOT, not that I havent tried to finger myself to search it, I tried and it seems everything I did inside my V when trying so hard to find GSPOT never worked. Also I've been wondering how some of the women here can have an orgasm ONLY by penetration (regardless penetrating plus rubbing clit). To me, an orgasm can only be reach only by a clit stimulation. that's ultimate.

So, I seriously need some detail explanations of how to have an orgasm from a GSPOT, and how it feels when you're having a GSPOT orgasm, is it the same like clit orgasm? some say no.. so I am crazily wondering how it feels like.. details please.. hehehe... thankssssss!

**ItsASecret** · 07-04-2010 09:52 AM

Not all women are cookie cutter respond-to-any-stimulation-within-vagina type women. Anatomy tells us there is a spongy area of tissue about 2 inches inside the vagina on the upper wall of the vaginal canal. Everything in the vagina feels spongy so do not worry if you cannot find this oh so mystical spot. Even if you can there is the part where not all women respond the same...and that is true. Anyone who tells you differently is wrong and needs to read a bit more into the variety of female response. For some women they can do the 'come hither' motion once their finger is in and feel absolutely nothing even though some girls say that is all it takes to get the G-spot going and for other women you do the same motion in the same spot and they will go off the wall in pleasure. If you are one of those women that simply does not feel anything then it is completely alright because they are going to be countless millions who respond the exact same way. One person may love something that another person may think is absolutely horrid. Each person needs to figure out what they like best and move on if they do not like one thing in particular.

As for orgasm through penetration only, lucky girls. I do not know the stats on that one but I would imagine the amount of women that can only orgasm via penetration (without vibrator vibrations or clit stimulation) would be very very low compared to those who can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation. I again would not worry if you cannot achieve an orgasm without clitoral because that seems to be the average consensus for women.

**pocari** · 07-04-2010 10:28 AM

yes agree with you, well I feel the spongy thing ... not totally like a sponge but much softer (I wonder if that's what we called a sponge-like wall).. and I wonder if it's the right location of Gspot or only my vagina wall or even my bladder wall. I tried and all I felt was.. ok I'm tired n no result... lol.. myb next time I will have to ask my fiance to search for that little diamond.

But yeah I think it's still okay even if some women cannot find their GSPOTs or having pleasure from penetration. As long as the clit still plays a role, I think that will be just fine.

any other experiences?

**Hopeless Dork** · 07-04-2010 11:04 AM

For me I can orgasm through Gspot stimulation alone... thought it takes me be extremely aroused and getting direct, intense, accurate and consistant pressure on it. I can orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone... but am squeezing like crazy wanting something rubbing on my spot. Still feels good... slightly less satisfactory. Now stimulation to BOTH.. provides with the most satisfactory mind blowing orgasm.

I think it just depends on where you focus your pleasure. It does not feel, to me, exactly like my clitoris, though the nerves do connect. When enough pressure is applied it almost feels like you are rubbing your clit from underneath it to me :P So maybe it does have clitoral like sensations for me.

For me its pressure... extreme pressure that brings pleasure. Some light gentle strokes would not stimulate my gspot enough for pleasure though it would feel good... just not good enough to come from. Think of it as if you are trying to massage a pea through a mattress. It takes a lot of pushing to get it to give the reallllly really good sensations.

The orgasms I have when pressure is applied to my gspot cause me to squirt... my orgasms from clitoral stimulation alone do not. The orgasms I have when pressure is applied to my gspot cause intense uterine contractions, body deep orgasm.... where as my clitoral ones seems to keep the pleasure to outside of my body.

**pocari** · 07-04-2010 11:29 AM

yeah I feel that urinating sensation.. but I doubt it is the gspot, and I think it's the bladder spot instead.. cuz when we do some certain sex position, I seem to get the feeling to urinate often and it causes a discomfort.. but some people say it's the GSPOT.. I mean.. if thats the gspot, how come it feels so .... weird.. I mean no good feeling at all like we feel on the clit (some joy at least).. and if I let him to continue as I once believed it was the GSPOT, all I got was an urinary tract infections and ohhh thats just so annoying... so... I hope there will be a GSPOT school soon.. lol

**ItsASecret** · 07-04-2010 11:48 AM

You will not be able to feel your bladder. That urinating sensation is the supposed G-spot stimulation...according to many many people you need to keep the stimulation going through all those weird feelings in order to reach the complete G-spot orgasm. It does not mean you will actually pee either, especially not if you already went to the bathroom prior to sex.

**pocari** · 07-04-2010 12:04 PM

ItsASecret, wow seriously? I always pee before sex, and when he enters me I feel I want to pee over n over altho nothing comes out.. but it is really uncomfy, and I get UTI the next days cuz of too much urinating sensation occurs... like I pee every minutes, sore, painful, sometimes there's blood on my pee.. awful!

Well, I once believed urinating sensation is a sign of gspot, and everytime I did that (I did many times).. I get UTI instead of the "OMG it's so good" feeling. weird huh?

**ItsASecret** · 07-04-2010 12:19 PM

Again not everyone is going to go mad wild if their G-spot is stimulated. If you get frequent UTIs then simply make sure everything is clean, including him.

**pocari** · 07-04-2010 12:31 PM

only when we do some certain position that makes me wanna pee over n over, the next days I get UTI. I can assure we're clean.. so.. ya.. I don't know maybe something's not right. I'll have to explore more.

**Magnetism** · 07-04-2010 12:32 PM

I read the same thing that it'sasecret said.

The problem is when you're in the moment, it's easier to just go back to the clitoris b/c that's what gives you pleasure. At least for me.