Balls and oral!

**JRod** · 07-13-2010 04:08 PM

My girl loves oral. Thing is, she pays WAY too much attention to my balls. Now I'm not complaining and frankly its good and different. But now its about 90/10 and my penis is kinda missin her. Is this common?

**ItsASecret** · 07-13-2010 05:09 PM

If it were up to me I would not go near them with my mouth, I will with my hands on occasion though. Every once and awhile I will give in and just do whatever he asks during a bj and that will sometimes include some licking in that area but that really does not happen that often.

**MiniVanMan** · 07-14-2010 01:40 PM

Licking is fine, but actually in the mouth scares the cr*p out of me. It's not physically comfortable, and the fear of something going wrong is insurmountable.

Why do some women not go near them with their mouth? How are balls any different that way than a penis? I don't get it.

**WildChild** · 07-14-2010 01:43 PM

Originally Posted by JRod

My girl loves oral. Thing is, she pays WAY too much attention to my balls. Now I'm not complaining and frankly its good and different. But now its about 90/10 and my penis is kinda missin her. Is this common?

They fit better in your mouth, she may be more comfortable there. And I've NEVER had a grab my head and start trying to take control when I've got one of his balls in my mouth but they will do it during a bj.

**snuffie** · 07-14-2010 04:30 PM

Like I said on a previous post, i enjoy giving head and licking and sucking balls is all just part of the act, but I would focus my attention more on the penis but definately give them enough attention.

**Mes T** · 07-14-2010 06:15 PM

I wouldn't want my bf to think I'm avoiding certain areas, so like others I give some attention to the balls but mostly penis, say 80/20. Also judging by his reactions, I don't think playing with his balls does that much for him.

JRod just tell her what you're thinking. She's probably only doing this because she believes you're really enjoying it as it is.

**Thomas Hepburn** · 07-15-2010 12:40 AM

My g/f playing with my balls, moving them around, cupping them, separating them and stroking them is very nice for me. I think it's better if the guy is shaved as he can feel more. I don't want her to solely do my balls, but playing with them for an half hour or so is very nice for me as a prelude to sex of any kind, especially mouth or hand job. It feels nice to let the most delicate bits of your body be open and vulnerable to your female partner for me as well. Playing with the balls and then occasionally stroking the erect shaft of the penis is very enjoyable.

**Craic** · 07-15-2010 08:28 AM

I have no problem using my mouth on my boyfriend's balls during oral. I mostly use it as a prelude to the action on the penis. My boyfriend has said that he enjoys it if I stop mid-way to do something else (kiss his neck, give attention to his balls, etc.) and then return to his penis; his attention is diverted so that when I return it's like a shock of how good it feels again. I know that many guys don't want women to stop once they begin, so I'm sure that is his personal preference. For me though, balls attention is a nice addition, but clearly not the star of the show.

**sungoddesschelsy** · 09-17-2010 09:33 AM

I'd give alot more attention to his balls if he'd at least trim his hair... I give them attention now but I promise if he ever shaved everything off for me, he'd think he's become my king and not just daddy lol!

**Winged_Muse** · 09-17-2010 11:14 AM

I try to give them attention when I give my man a blowjob. If we have time a lone and are deeply in the mood, he'll pull down his pants for me so I can play with everything but if we're not home a lone and have to worry about other people around, he will normally just keep them in his pants and let me suck his penis but I do like to rub and lick them when I am able to.