Blood-tinged discharge.. Tear?

midnight_tragedy · 04-11-2007, 06:26 PM

My boyfriend was gone for an extended period of time and for the week previous to that I was on my period, so we didn't have sex for like three weeks until last Monday, upon his return.
Because both of us spent the 10 days that he was gone without masturbation in order to build up the desire, he was especially large and I was tighter than usual.

I was wet for most of the sex, but after the second round, I started getting sore. I told him I needed to stop but we ended up doing it again.

When I got home that night, I was very sore and the next day I went to the bathroom and it hurt to pee and I had some bloody discharge from my vagina.

Now Wednesday, it no longer hurts when I walk, but it is still sore. I am still experiencing bloody discharge...

Is this a tear? I told my boyfriend that we probably won't be having sex for the next month, because I want to heal and feel better...
But I don't know if I should have it checked out by a doctor or if I need some antibiotics to prevent infection or something...

Any help?

**bec10** · 04-11-2007, 07:39 PM

As much as it hurts to hear, you're better off to stop and let it heal. Sadly, the same thing happened to me when I first started having sex, but I didn't stop and let it heal. So for a couple of months I had this cut feeling thing up in there. It's tough to do, but you'll be better off in the long run

midnight_tragedy · 04-12-2007, 02:28 PM

Okay, so even though I've had it for about 4 days and it's still bleeding, it's okay to just let it heal without going to a doctor?

The only thing I'm really worried about at this point is that it's still bleeding...

**bec10** · 04-13-2007, 09:10 AM

It could just be a really bad tear. Does it still hurt? I didn't have any problems with infection, but if you're really worried about it, maybe you should ask your doctor. It would put your mind at ease at least.

BlueSparks · 04-15-2007, 12:33 PM

I felt that recently when I had sex with this new partner, it hurts like crazy... for the first time I felt a sharp pain when he tried to enter me completely... even when he tried entering me again, the sharp pain happened again... like a tear... usually there is a little bleeding from it...

Then again... even after I have abstain from having sex from him to recover from the tear.... when we had sex again, the same sharp pain happened...

Is it perhaps I am too tight? Or his is too thick? Or he did not stimulate me enough?

**indecisive** · 04-23-2007, 02:42 PM

Try some KY lubricant-it really works and my boyfriend is thick so everytime we do it it feels like the first time and kinda hurts so he has to enter really slowly until I open up and get use to it and then I am fine. If he last a long time then I start to get a little dry and then we use a little of the KY and I have no problems. Hope this helps.

Diamond27390 · 06-15-2009, 09:26 AM

Hey I am having the same problem me and bf did it on Friday night and we tryed a position but i couldnt hold myself up properly and it just kept hitting me inside and ever since then 3 days later as it now monday i have been bleeding it been brown now it going brown, red I though that it had stopped last night i was so upset i was crying cause it had never been this bad before i was so happy when i though it had stopped as went to toilet and whipped there was only a little bit like spotting i was so releived then went to the toilet this morning (Monday) everything was still fine no blood no browny stuff just fine till a few hours later i went to the toilet again and there it was back on the tissue again im so distraugh over this i dont know if it my period either as im on the pill and took my last one saturday night it usualy comes on a tuesday night or wednesday so it realli getting to me now I dont feel any cramps yet and the other problem is now im getting worried and scared to do it with him again if it finally heals im scared to wanna do it again with him incase this happeneds all over again i know that im still bleeding come next tuesday or wednesday to see and doctor cause that means that it no longer my period and it dont wanna heal on its own this is realli stressing me out and making me feel depresed like my body hate me help !!

04-11-2007, 06:26 PM	#1
midnight_tragedy Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 4	Blood-tinged discharge.. Tear? My boyfriend was gone for an extended period of time and for the week previous to that I was on my period, so we didn't have sex for like three weeks until last Monday, upon his return. Because both of us spent the 10 days that he was gone without masturbation in order to build up the desire, he was especially large and I was tighter than usual. I was wet for most of the sex, but after the second round, I started getting sore. I told him I needed to stop but we ended up doing it again. When I got home that night, I was very sore and the next day I went to the bathroom and it hurt to pee and I had some bloody discharge from my vagina. Now Wednesday, it no longer hurts when I walk, but it is still sore. I am still experiencing bloody discharge... Is this a tear? I told my boyfriend that we probably won't be having sex for the next month, because I want to heal and feel better... But I don't know if I should have it checked out by a doctor or if I need some antibiotics to prevent infection or something... Any help?

04-11-2007, 07:39 PM	#2
bec10 VIP Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 32	As much as it hurts to hear, you're better off to stop and let it heal. Sadly, the same thing happened to me when I first started having sex, but I didn't stop and let it heal. So for a couple of months I had this cut feeling thing up in there. It's tough to do, but you'll be better off in the long run __________________ BeCCa

04-13-2007, 09:10 AM	#4
bec10 VIP Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 32	It could just be a really bad tear. Does it still hurt? I didn't have any problems with infection, but if you're really worried about it, maybe you should ask your doctor. It would put your mind at ease at least. __________________ BeCCa

04-15-2007, 12:33 PM	#5
BlueSparks Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Bishan, Singapore Posts: 1	I faced that too... I felt that recently when I had sex with this new partner, it hurts like crazy... for the first time I felt a sharp pain when he tried to enter me completely... even when he tried entering me again, the sharp pain happened again... like a tear... usually there is a little bleeding from it... Then again... even after I have abstain from having sex from him to recover from the tear.... when we had sex again, the same sharp pain happened... Is it perhaps I am too tight? Or his is too thick? Or he did not stimulate me enough?

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04-12-2007, 02:28 PM	#3
midnight_tragedy Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 4	Okay, so even though I've had it for about 4 days and it's still bleeding, it's okay to just let it heal without going to a doctor? The only thing I'm really worried about at this point is that it's still bleeding...

04-23-2007, 02:42 PM	#6
indecisive VIP Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 62	Try some KY lubricant-it really works and my boyfriend is thick so everytime we do it it feels like the first time and kinda hurts so he has to enter really slowly until I open up and get use to it and then I am fine. If he last a long time then I start to get a little dry and then we use a little of the KY and I have no problems. Hope this helps.

06-15-2009, 09:26 AM	#7
Diamond27390 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2	Hey I am having the same problem me and bf did it on Friday night and we tryed a position but i couldnt hold myself up properly and it just kept hitting me inside and ever since then 3 days later as it now monday i have been bleeding it been brown now it going brown, red I though that it had stopped last night i was so upset i was crying cause it had never been this bad before i was so happy when i though it had stopped as went to toilet and whipped there was only a little bit like spotting i was so releived then went to the toilet this morning (Monday) everything was still fine no blood no browny stuff just fine till a few hours later i went to the toilet again and there it was back on the tissue again im so distraugh over this i dont know if it my period either as im on the pill and took my last one saturday night it usualy comes on a tuesday night or wednesday so it realli getting to me now I dont feel any cramps yet and the other problem is now im getting worried and scared to do it with him again if it finally heals im scared to wanna do it again with him incase this happeneds all over again i know that im still bleeding come next tuesday or wednesday to see and doctor cause that means that it no longer my period and it dont wanna heal on its own this is realli stressing me out and making me feel depresed like my body hate me help !!