Thread: Troubled Sex Life.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now. He is my first, and while he has had sex in past relationship, he is still not all that experienced. We are in a long distance relationship, so "us time" isnt all that frequent and when we are together we fit in as much as we can. We have oral sex and have been trying to have intercourse for a few months, but we havent been successful yet because he cant stay hard when hes inside me, even without a condom. When i give him oral/handjob he will stay hard a bit longer but eventually will go a little soft unless he uses his own hand. It has been like this every time. He says its been like this for him in past situations as well and that he has to finish off himself. In the beginning i knew it was because of nerves, but he says he isnt nervous anymore. We are both 20 years old, and while he is a smoker, i cant say he has ED. Ive suggested to him that it could be he may masturbate a little too much when we're apart and to cut back for a while, but im not sure it will help. Maybe hes just not stimulated enough? Help?