Thread: Sex has become sore for my girlfriend, stomach pains

hi there - i thought i would come on here and ask for a little advice. my girlfriend and I have been together for a year and sex has always been fine until about the last 5-6 weeks where she has been feeling really sore, only sometimes though whilst doing it.

last monday she complained to me about having stomach pains one afternoon, and they got worse but she just went along with them as she was due for time of the month and thought it was that building up, but they came and have gone on sunday but the sore pain has been floating around since last monday - it comes and goes, but today she mentioned after she had been to the toilet there was a tiny little particle of blood that had came out too and has been a similar for the past few days but she thought it was just the end of her cycle.

can anyone advise me on what might be going on with her? i'm very scared and don't know what to do - she has phoned the doctors but they can't see her until saturday afternoon.

i hope someone can help me.

forgot to mention I am 20 and she is 18, incase that helps any.

Was there any period of time that you stopped having sex before this happened? I know sex is frequently painful for me, because sometimes my boyfriend and I are unable to do it for days, weeks, or even months. The next time we do it, it causes tearing and bleeding and hurts for a while. If she had any kind of tearing, that can take a while to heal, and re-opening those little tears can hurt a lot. Are you guys doing anything differently? Different positions, different kind of lube, etc?

I think she'll be okay, the doctors will probably be able to figure it out. Try not to worry too much, I hope she improves soon.

thankyou for your reply!

there wasn't a lot of time between having sex, but we are not a sex-mad couple, we have it once or twice a week at most. sometimes not all some weeks.

i spoke to her yesterday and she it was like burning on the inside once we got going - although it was very sore upon entry and we had to take it really slow to begin with until it stretched a little more. but she did have a little slit (like a paper cut) around the same area each time we done it about 4 / 5 weeks ago, on the outer skin as if its been stretched too much - and she said that was sore. It was a few times after this that I noticed that she had gone alot tighter inside or I had got alot thicker - but I don't think I have drastically. She feels as if it's alot tigher for her inside too.

last night she also mentioned that its like little nagging pains all the time in her stomach for hours, then just out the blue it can become so sore she finds it hard walking etc.

any ideas?