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Porn is normal and have more advantages
I’m one of many guys who prefer porn to sex and I’m open and honest about it. The advantages of porn for a man is overwhelming compared to sex, I will use the term porn synonymously with masturbation as the two goes hand and hand. Feminists and insecure women try to find any way and excuse to talk against porn as a moral sin as a way of controlling men, a kind of a double standard for gender equality and independence I would say. But I support it for all its advantages it offers men, social problems and disease control issues like HIV/AIDS it helps.Originally Posted by DanielleA
Advantages of porn for single men
1) While women’s magazines teach young women to say no to sex. Older women go after more mature men 30+, leaving younger men 16 to 27 in the category most women refer to as ”immature boys” which women are not interested in. This leave men frustrated to develop coping skill especially when they rich their prime during early 20’s. That’s where porn becomes an essential coping skill, but also a strong habit probably more difficult to quit than smoking, but very important for coping on a daily basis.
2) Women often have issues with men and their sexual needs and behavior, porn allows men to enjoy their sexuality on their own without being dependant on women and their approval.
3) Porn is important for single men who prefer single status to have a sense of independence to enjoy his sex life without being dependant on a partner.
4) It's often easier for men to enjoy porn than to face rejection, gender stereo typing, conflict that threatens them when seeking a sexual partner.
Advantages of porn for a man
1) Porn does not cause accidental pregnancy, condoms can break, women lie about their use of contraceptives putting men at risk.
2) Porn does not trick a man into unwanted pregnancy, thus it prevents men from falling into the trap of becoming a woman’s “financial slave” and force into lawbinding responsibility he might not be ready for.
3) Porn does not spread STD’s or HIV/AIDS making it the safest form of sexual activity
4) Porn does not use women for a night then break their heart the next day like sexually frustrated men do who don’t rather watch porn
5) Porn does not accuse men of rape or harassment when men try to satisfy their sexual needs
6) Porn does not smell or get wet, vaginal odors and fluids which can be unpleasant for many guys.(I have said no to sex before because I’m not prepared to deal with the virginal odors and fluids one must bare with every time)
7) With porn a man can get an orgasm in a few minuets, sex take long to get satisfactory results.
8) Porn you can watch at any time, sex you can only have when a woman wants it as well.
9) Masturbation only require the work of the hand in a way the man enjoys it best, with minimum effort. Sex is often in most uncomfortable position,often the man is required to do the hard work, and a lot of effort, (often I had said no to sex because I’m tiered and its too much effort.)
10) Porn can provide the best sex appeal since the man gets to choose the appearance, style, theme for a his mood. With sex the woman is not always attractive or appealing making it difficult to be satisfying or arousing.
11) With porn and masturbation a man don’t need a woman’s permission or approval for sexual satisfaction.
12) With porn a man can express himself sexually in any way he feels most arousing and satisfying without worrying about a woman’s approval to whether it fits her values, expectations and insecurities.
13) Men who watch porn are sexually more satisfied on a day-to-day basis making it less likely to look around or chase after women (personal experience)
14) Porn is often filled with new fresh and exciting imagination and creativity, women taking passive sexual roles, (just laying there) makes it often dull and boring after the tenth time of having sex, making it the least energy efficient way to get an orgasm.
Disadvantage of porn for a man
1) How to explain to you girl friend/wife why you never feel like having sex it can be misleading making her think you have an affair while your habits make you most likely not to have an affair.
2) It is often lonely to have a sex life on your own.
As a 31 year old male who have been single large my early adult life being tired of gender issues and rejection and didn't like the risks that goes with relationships. Who knows what kinds of trouble I might have had by now, if I was trying to have sex as my only way of sexual satisfaction for the last ten years. Like many other men experience, sexual harassment cases for being to desperate; being called a stalker for calling a girl who don’t feel the same way, twice to many times; being called a pervert for having needs that doesn’t match the woman’s needs or values; paying child support for a woman and her family for unwanted pregnancy or, being on chronic medication to survive HIV/AIDS or other STD’s. I’m grateful and glad for the positive role porn played in my life.
Now I date a woman who don’t mind porn, since it is a integrated part of my sexuality, as long as I give enough love and attention for her as well. We are both happy this way. Many couples like to share porn rather as part of their sex life making it work both ways.
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