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    My wife and I have been together faithfully for 30 years. Our sex life has slowed down quite a bit, she says she’s tired and I understand that but I feel she may be in a rut and bored sexually. I have hinted to her about spicing up our sex life and about sharing our bed.
    She loves it when I lick and suck both her nipples at the same time. I have asked her if she had ever thought about having two people sucking her boobs at the same time...she usually avoids the question. A few times she had made comments that lead me to believe she has thought about it. Things like, “do you really think it would stop with just the boobs?" We've talked about other people who had threesomes and she asked me wouldn't I be afraid she might enjoy it to much.
    One day when we were in bed I tied her arms to the bed, loosely so she could get out if she wanted to and blindfolded her. After a little playing around I told her I had a surprise for her, I went over to the closet and opened the door. I could see a concerned look on her face, I went and touched her breast with the back of my hand and gently scratched them with my nails, something I don't normally do, I could feel her nervously shivering. As I continued to touch her she became to relax a little bit then I removed the blindfold and when she saw it was just me she smiled. After wards she said I didn't know who might have been coming out of there.
    She will never say it but I think she wants to experience a threesome. I'm not sure if I want too. Any advice.
    In cases you’re wondering why I would want to share my wife with another person. Well I love my wife more then anything, including myself, and I believe this experience would take her to another level of pleasure and bring her out of her rut. I know I would get jealous but if it makes her happy I’d probably do it. I could handle this more then her cheating on me.
    My life goal is to totally please my wife. I know it sounds corny but I get off making my wife happy

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    Well if you won't be jealous and you are ok with with .. I don't see why not
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    What makes you think she wants a threesome? If she hasn't said it, just curious as to why you think that?
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    I dont think it sounds corny... I've done probably 75% of the things I've done sexually because it made my boyfriend happy and that is what I enjoy... I enjoy seeing him happy and the physical part of it is really just a bonus for me. With that being said I'd also have to say as much as I love to make him happy I'd never agree to a threesome with other girl or another guy because... I simply would never be comfortable enough with that 3rd person to enjoy any pleasure.

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    Sometimes doing something that is far from what you normally do is very exciting, because of the unknown and danger. But it could also be opening Pandora's Box. Determine if the reward is worth the risk for both of you. There are other spicing up options that doesn't bring a third party into the mix.

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