Please help us! We have no imagination!!

**lynne2010** · 08-16-2010 10:42 AM

my husband and I are trying to spice things up in the bedroom. . .we are thinking of doing a frisky version of monopoly and we are in the middle of making the cards with sex/foreplay “tasks” that must be performed by the person that draws the card.

However, we are not that imaginative, lol. . .so, I was wondering if you all can give us some ideas?

The more the merrier, we want at least 50 cards for HIM and 50 cards for HER. We have some ideas already, most of them are oral, lol, so if you have any ideas that don’t involve oral sex, that would be great. Let your imaginations fly! We tried, but they didn’t get far off the ground. Thanks!

**pretzel** · 08-16-2010 10:49 AM

take a look around the house, you'd be suprised how many things you have that could be used.

Feathers, blindfolds, lotions, food, etc.

Have some things simple and some harder.

Have some "Partners choice cards" where the other person does what they want to you.

**Olympia** · 08-16-2010 12:39 PM

As Pretzel states.. Look around the house, there are many things that one can have fun at arms reach!

Have a theme night... massage night; rub scented oils (if not allergic) on your partner, soothing music, and candles. Picnic somewhere in the house. Surprise night.. wrap yourself in a bow, (nakie under a coat or robe). Afternoon delight, meet for lunch at a motel/hotel, or home.. and enjoy time together...
Cook a meal together, and have fun doing it..Lots of "Finger foods".. LOL
If you like games... and it seems you do, one of my favorites. Naughty Scrabble..

**jns** · 08-16-2010 01:35 PM

For more adventure, venture into restraints, bondage, S&M, not so clean, unused parts, being erotic about any body part, sex toys, masks, role playing, etc.

**lynne2010** · 08-16-2010 03:22 PM

Yes, we've read things that are similar to that, and they are good suggestions. But I'm looking for something more specific.

For example, if he draws a certain card, it says, "massage her breasts with oil for 1 minute". I draw another card that says "rub his penis through his silk boxers for 1 minute".

Stuff like that. Very specific things we can do for foreplay that will not result in orgasm.

Any ideas?

**rcoreyus** · 08-16-2010 04:43 PM

OK - game rules:

Win condition: First person to orgasm looses - and needs to be the others sex slave for some period of time ( 1 hour after the game ends?)

Get a 1 minute timer.
Draw a card - it says something you are allowed to do to your partner for 1 minute.
"use hands on genitals".
"use mouth on nipples"
"use feet anywhere".
"intercourse - missionary"
If you use sex toys, use of those will be included.
If you like a bit of rough play, maybe there are some "10 spanks on the bare bottom" cards.
There will be some "do anything you want" cards.
(obviously everything on the cards should be something both parties enjoy (or don't mind).
You may want different cards for each person.

The trick is that you get only 1 minute to do the thing on the card to make the other person orgasm, then it is their turn.

If you get too desperate, you can concede the game and ask your partner to finish you however you want - but then you Lose!

After say 15 minutes, the time limit goes to 2 minutes, then 3.....

Another way to play is that you start with a hand of all cards. You get to choose what you do (out of your remaining cards) each turn. You will want to same some of the more stimulating things for later once your opponent is already aroused - but of course if you wait too long you might lose yourself. If you run out of cards, hand them out and start again (with a 2 minute limit).

You can vary the rules depending on how the game goes.

**lynne2010** · 08-16-2010 07:29 PM

Thanks for the reply, Rcoreyus.

Anyone else?? The more specific the better! We need some foreplay tips especially to get me (the girl) going and panting for sex. . . .it was pretty easy to figure out what will turn him on, lol

**sourpuss** · 08-16-2010 10:15 PM

There are actual board games that you can buy for this very thing. I wish I could remember the name of the site I saw it on.

rcorey's suggestions are great, just extrapolate from there. Hey, even making up the cards and the game itself could be fun, do it together.

**rhiannon34** · 08-17-2010 08:39 AM

60 seconds of a lap dance, 60 seconds of pleasuring yourself in front of the other, a 2 minute nude full body massage, 60 seconds of slowly sucking on his fingers. I agree with sourpuss, I have bought some games that were great for this. Monopoly I think would be waaaayyyy to long!