Thread: Painful Sex

Me and my boyfriend first attempted to have sex roughly this time last year but we couldnt because it was so painful and since then we have only been able to do it a handful of times without me being in bad pain. I have been to the doctors and been tested for infections of all kinds and ovarian cancer etc and all came back clear. We were both virgins, so no previous experiance to look back on. We have tried it with condoms and without (pill protected) to see if it was a latex reaction but I dont think it is. We lube up realllly well! It just feels like its sort of burning

Please can someone tell me this is normal and it will get better? It really gets me down to the point I just sit and cry because it seems everyone else can have perfectly normal, exciting sex and yet we are struggling to have normal sex! We are 18 and I just feel (although silly and I can trust him) that my boyfriend will end up cheating on me or atleast needing to go elsewhere to get his kicks and as much as I know to kick him to the curb if he ever did, it would hurt so much =/

Thank you for reading xx