personally huge turn on, Used to do it with my ex,not had sex in 5 months but it is certainly something I like to do. and it works both ways....
personally huge turn on, Used to do it with my ex,not had sex in 5 months but it is certainly something I like to do. and it works both ways....
"Eventually all the pieces fall into place...until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment and know that everything happens for a reason".
Sorry if this has been spoken about before to those who mentioned it.
Some good point of views from others, Thanks
I just wanted to see if more people would be for or against it as i would feel so silly if i asked mid way through being intimate and the reply was no it would kind of make me withdraw my kinky side and not be able to enjoy... .
Anyways, thanks x
I mean, during the act I don't really think about it. If he goes down on me and then works his way back up I'm not going to stop him from passionately kissing me, it would ruin the mood we've worked up... i'm not worried about it; I keep my area clean. That being said, I do have a thought after going down on him and then going to kiss him afterwards... but he's never said anything so I say party on...
for those of you with a problem, try shower sex.
vivre bien
I agree with lonestar. I just enjoy the whole flow of things without thinking where i/he has been. It s actually a huge turn on for me when he kisses me after going down on me.
He on the other hand is not for kissing after a BJ but he is lossenning up to it slowly
Often times my SO will give me a quick bit of oral when switching positions. I guess tasting herself isn't an issue.
This type of activity often arises in cuckold relationships where the male being cuckolded has to clean his wife after the bull has finished inside of her.
Maybe because we've been married for 20+ years; but I don't see an issue here. When I was younger, I would have passionately fought my way out of ever doing this, but now I feel that we have shared so much in life, and still want to share more. Why would I or she be offended by this? First; why would I ever expect her to go down on me if I treated my own flavors as toxic? Thats rediculous right?, and not very fair either.
Secondly, my wife and I both find it very erotic to have oral in between our many positions, during each encounter - and if that means oral after one or both of us has already released once or more, then so be it. I get intoxicated watching her perform oral on me after she has gotten me all wet (man that's exciting!), and I know she gets extremely wound up seeing me going at her after I've already been there (maybe several times), she has told me. It's not that I'm "going for my own", so to speak, but instead, that I'm not going to stop that from keeping me from making her reach for the sky again. Yahoooo! Git-er-Done!![]()
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Never thought that deep into it, but will say in the midst of sex between you and a female partner(or even multiple female partners), your tongue should be everywhere. The worst thing that can happen is you tasting yourself inadvertently while tasting your woman purposely. If another male/female group is included, discard all that, because you don't want to taste another man(and may not want to taste another woman depending on her whereabouts beforehand), lol.
I'm assuming we're not getting into wierd stuff and it's just you and a woman. Lick her the down. You're doing yourself a favor that she'll return.
Last edited by WildChild; 11-07-2010 at 07:10 AM.
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