Well certainly he has some, shall we say, issues?
I never thought of myself as unusual but can and often do come at the moment of penetration and then some more in a bit and still more after that. Have pretty much always been that way.
I would not recommend regularly foregoing foreplay, that is a very bad idea. It is emotionally damaging if nothing else.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
personally i can orgasm with just the penis but its not really intense...either him or i stimulate my clit during with makes his even better too!!!!
Define foreplay.. By that I mean, kissing is still foreplay, stroking your legs, inner thights, back, during penetration is still a form of "during play?"
I personally orgasm through penetration and more than once, during.. But, I get extra excited when I'm touched anywhere, not expecting it, a form of "what's that" feeling..
I do agree with WC that the added is a bonus and I definately agree that it's mind set on being able to let go, whether foreplay is involved, or only penetration where orgasms are concerned..
As for deserving? I think this. If your expect to take then you better expect to give... It works both ways....
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
When I am extremely aroused I am most sensitive inside of my vagina and can come from penetration of my boyfriends penis alone... with no other stimulation... but for heightened pleasure... stimulating my clitoris either rubbing it against his body or masturbating myself during sex just maximizes my pleasure and give me a crazy over the top pure pleasure orgasm.
Stimulation of my clitoris alone... without penetration I find extremely frustrating though I am able to orgasm that way. I defintely need the inside of my vagina stimulated in order to have a satisfying experience.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
Same as you hopeless dork. I cannot come from penetration (yet i've only done it 3 times!) I came close 2 of the three, so i have no doubt i'll be those that will come, but neither time was there much foreplay or button play (we were really short on time! sneaky us!)
For me it really depends on the penis. I have found it difficult to get off by intercourse alone with a circumcised man. I have recently been seeing a uncircumcised man and I have to say I much prefer a uncirced man now, it has been much less effort to get off, the foreskin gives the different feel.
Yes, but all orgasms are not created equally. Not a very intense orgasm for vaginal penetration only.
I would have to say most times, men get their info from porn, where the woman is having so much pleasure (which it is very pleasurable) when having actual penetration, but to be faking an orgasm through intercourse alone! A woman's clitoris is the key to orgasm! Just the act of actual intercourse and expecting her to reach orgasm, is like a woman playing with a man's scrotum and expecting to have an orgasm! Honestly!!! It's not gonna happen! I'm sure most women would agree!
And I hate to say it, but women often fake an orgasm because the actual sex has gone on for so long, not stimulating her to an orgasm & her partner either getting tired, or impatient to bring her to orgasm, so she decides to make him feel like he has pleased her enough to bring her to an orgasm. Sorry, but I believe that's true for a lot of women!sadly!
Last edited by Fallen1; 11-01-2010 at 12:46 PM. Reason: Merge posts
I think it depends on how turned on I , (and I assume its the same with many other girls), am at the time.. you have a more heightened like sense of stimulation the more turned on you are.. sometimes I can orgasm with nothing Inside of me, and sometimes a penis is honestly like the only thing I want to feel
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