Is a man's penis good enough to make you orgasm or ...

**kiki_tt** · 09-04-2010 07:12 AM

This is a nagging suspicion I've had for a long time as a guy

Is a man's penis good enough to make you orgasm?

In my mind: The female's anatomy is positioned such that the major center for pleasure, "the clitoris" is located "outside" the direct line of stimulation by the penis.. I am guessing even though at times it is nice most of the times [ ie the penis] ... it is not enough to make you "cum"

Am I right or totally wrong i.e. do you often require a finger, tongue

or some extra device [ dildo ]to orgasm. . .

**WildChild** · 09-04-2010 07:24 AM

You are totally wrong. But it depends on the woman.
Assuming it belongs to the right man, a penis is all I need.

**Mes T** · 09-04-2010 07:37 AM

Hehe. You are totally RIGHT, for my particular case anyway! I have yet to orgasm just from penis-in-vagina intercourse.

But every woman is built a little differently. It really all depends.

**ppenny** · 09-04-2010 08:31 AM

I am finding that I need more than just a penis to cum. But to what extent? I stay in the mood 24/7. I have just as much fun with a toy.

**hizenberg** · 09-04-2010 08:35 AM

it depends on the mood and the rythm and also the woman. some like both being stimulated (clit and vagina) some like one or the other, definateley depends on the women as each know their own bodys and what feels good to them, but most of us cant cum just by a penis, we need clitorus stimulation as well. i have the same fun by myself and with a penis, lol.

**jns** · 09-04-2010 08:50 AM

A man's penis is almost never the only thing needed to make a woman orgasm. Actually I would say never. If it was, women would orgasm during rape. The vast majority don't. What is necessary if for a woman to get her head in the game. If it is, almost any type of thing could bring her to orgasm. Some guys use the head of their penis to stimulate the clitoris to get the woman to orgasm. Of course, she has to find this mentally sexually exciting to actually orgasm. If you take a guy with a woman and try to get an orgasm from her without any foreplay, I would think in most cases that she would not orgasm, even if she likes or loves the guy.

**LanaBear** · 09-04-2010 12:52 PM

Originally Posted by WildChild

You are totally wrong. But it depends on the woman.
Assuming it belongs to the right man, a penis is all I need.

Completely agree. I have no issues orgasming with only my hubby's penis, no extracurricular activities needed although change is fun sometimes.

**ItsASecret** · 09-04-2010 12:56 PM

I simply cannot have an orgasm with just his penis. When I finally did orgasm for the first time with him I was using a vibrator on my clit. I am still waiting for the orgasm without he need of a vibrator but it is extremely difficult no matter how much foreplay is done.

**WildChild** · 09-04-2010 02:20 PM

Originally Posted by jns

A man's penis is almost never the only thing needed to make a woman orgasm. Actually I would say never. If it was, women would orgasm during rape. The vast majority don't. What is necessary if for a woman to get her head in the game. If it is, almost any type of thing could bring her to orgasm. Some guys use the head of their penis to stimulate the clitoris to get the woman to orgasm. Of course, she has to find this mentally sexually exciting to actually orgasm. If you take a guy with a woman and try to get an orgasm from her without any foreplay, I would think in most cases that she would not orgasm, even if she likes or loves the guy.

This depends on the woman, I recently left a relationship where there was no foreplay for nearly two years. I still came like crazy with him, there was never a time I didn't. It's better, more intense, if there is.

**jns** · 09-04-2010 02:33 PM

WC, I won't say your one of a kind, but from what I have read on these forums, most women want and deserve foreplay. For a long term relationship, it's best to have it as it shows that both parties are interested in the others state of excitement. I doubt that suggesting no foreplay as a way to get a girl to orgasm and have a loving sexual relationship will be received as good advice by most. I suppose a guy in such a situation could have the idea that he didn't have to work on the relationship, since the girl would keep coming back for the sex.

You probably notice that I qualify most comments.