Thread: Question about penis size

As said before em393, wait until it's erect in your hand (when that occasion arises) and then you'll see how big it is. If you are worried about it, just tell him that he's big ( a comment most men would not be ashamed of!) and ask him to go gentle with you. If necessary when you have sex, you get on top and just allow as many inches inside as you're comfortable with. The vast majority of caring guys do not like hurting their girl with their organ. x

Originally Posted by Thomas Hepburn

The vast majority of caring guys do not like hurting their girl with their organ. x

Amen this one.

We normally do not want to hurt our girls at all...

Many times when a man is small when soft his penis gets large when erect, but those who are large when soft, it may only grow an inch or so when erect. My mans penis is pretty small when soft, but when hard its 9 3/4 inches. If I can deal with that, any woman can...because I am small. It just takes time and lubrication is always a good idea.

Ok so I am back. We had sex last night and it was really good in some ways but not exactly perfect. And yes his penis is huge. It felt AMAZING when he first went inside me but hurt a little when he went fast and when I was on top (we had to stop). The only problem was he came really quickly after maybe a minute (feel kind of bad for saying). So I can't say it was as good as sex w my ex but it was only one time and I did get more turned on because of his penis.

I understand the pain part of a large penis. If you don't use lube it can get raw. He might have been super excited or nervous. I'd give him a break on the first time. If it keeps happening try giving him a hand job before hand or blow job, and if you wait a little bit so he can get hard again, he will last longer the second time around for you. Just a suggestion.

Or, you could try sitting on top again. This way you dictate how much length goes inside you, and to avoid early release from him, you could put your hand down to the bottom of his penis shaft and gently squeeze. (If you hold the penis in your hand and lift it up, you'll see there's a large tube that runs down the whole length on the underside of it) This carries the seminal fluid. If you gently squeeze this when on top it will prevent him from ejaculating. (It will also hold the blood in the penis as well if you squeeze the whole shaft. In this way you keep it erect without it ejaculating) When you're ready and you have orgasmed you can let go and let him release. And, by the way, take it as a compliment that he ejaculated quickly. Shows he fancies you!