Thread: My Lover Urinated on Me During Sex...PLEASE HELP!!!

Maybe he is extremely embarrassed that it happened and thats why he wants to make light of it, he just wants the incident forgotten.
Its up to you though, either drop it and get on with your future or, if you cant you need to be honest with how dirty the whole incident made you feel but be realistic in how he can make amends as he cant undo what is done, also if he's that embarassed you could be pushing him away in keep bringing up his mistake.
good luck

As noted by several other male bloggers, it is quite possible to pee with a full erection. It's more difficult, but entirely possible.

As for accidentally, peeing, some people do have bladder issues. If this is not the case, I can't imagine "accidentally" peeing more than a drop or two. Certainly not enough to drench someone.

Talk to the guy and find out what's going on. This is not going to improve on its own.

you really really need to tal to him about this- i may be really ignorant on these matters- but i wodner if its possible he has a weak bladder and had driunk too much before sex with you.
i think its important to remeber that this may have been an unfortuate accident.
but if he had a weak bladder- surely he would ahve stopped the sex and said- im sorry i really need a wee- then carried on
seems like he got carried away.
some men unfortunately have strange kinks- you ought to talk to some prostitute who have seen it all
also the fact he always likes missionary positions maybe suggests to me that he is confused- has urges he doesnt undertsand-
he doesnt sound much of a turn on or a nice guy- why are you with him
i had a friend who slept with someone- first day and they wanked on her face- and someone else- slep with someone the first date tried to do anal- but like he didnt know how to do it any other way- know what i mean?
this is hat puts me off sex- this is why i think you have to get yourself a nice bloke- someone who you can fully trust- someone who you think is a really decent guy

As femme says, most men are unable to urinate when erect. It's almost impossible as the uretha "gate" is closed off at the time. (leastwise it's impossible for me)I'm surprised he produced any fluid after having sex twice before. If he geunuinely couldn't help it then perhaps try to understand. You'll only know it it happens again. If it's deliberate and you don't like it then tell him plainly.

Say it was an accident, I would have apologized profusely, as I think any honest guy would.

Since he was nonchalant about I think he was trying something, I have heard of this fetish before. I know the difference between orgasm and peeing, I have time believing it was an accident.

Personally i can go while erect, but it takes a bit of time and pushing to get it to start.

I'd talk to him about it if I were you, since it seems to be bother you so much.