My boyfriend wants to cum on me... what do I do when he does??

**Fansea** · 09-11-2010 03:11 PM

My boyfriend doesnt want to wear a condom so he wants to cum on me. What do i do when he does?

**ItsASecret** · 09-11-2010 03:23 PM

Grab a tissue and clean it up? Not much you can do unless you want to smear it all over your body for some sort of visual turn on...if that is your sort of thing.

If you are talking about him cumming inside you then it is a totally different story. Be on birth control or be prepared to think about what you would do if you became pregnant because the chance will go way up if you are not practicing some form of birth control. Try to always practice a safe means of sex so that you do not end up encountering troubles.-stds or otherwise

**lizzardb63** · 09-11-2010 04:32 PM

My boyfriend cums on me. We usually put a towel down or next to us, then just wipe it off. Its nothing to be embarassed about. Or just use tissues.

**Texasred** · 09-11-2010 07:09 PM

Be thankful it's ON you, not IN you...

**foxdana** · 09-11-2010 09:59 PM

You do realise you can get pregnant if he pulls out to cum? Men pre-ejaculate and that can get you pregnant, the chances are slim, but it could happen! As for cumming on you, its no big deal, my husband finds it a major turn on!!

**Faerunner** · 09-12-2010 10:39 AM

If you're worried about pregnancy from pre-ejaculate, you can always have him masturbate over you or stimulate him orally and take your mouth away before he ejaculates. We like doing this sometimes as an alternative to sex; it makes him happy and it's easy to clean up.

**sallywi2003** · 09-12-2010 07:30 PM

I guess if he is talking cumming on your stomach or your back or breast that all cleans off. If he is talking cumming isnide you like the others said be sure you are on birth control. If he wants to pull out when he is going to cum my BF has said that then he explodes before he knows it and then it is too late. Good thing I am on birth control pills.

**jns** · 09-19-2010 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by Fansea

My boyfriend doesnt want to wear a condom so he wants to cum on me. What do i do when he does?

Tell him that he needs to clean it up, now.

**ltsang** · 09-19-2010 01:49 PM

I want to do this on this on my wife too, but she doesn't let me cum on her body. Why?

**PurpleGoddess** · 09-19-2010 06:31 PM

Hi, I just want to add something to what foxdana already said. I think it's a very bad idea to have unprotected sex with the intention of pulling out before the guy finishes. It's very possible that a guy will delay pulling out because it feels good, will not realise how close he is to finishing or not realise that he's already orgasming. He could easily be caught by surprise. All these things mean you could end up still having unprotected sex with semen inside you. There's also semen in precum which foxdana said, which men produce while they're having sex and turned on. Both precum semen and semen from the guy finishing inside you can get you pregnant. I'm assuming you're not on the contraceptive pill.

Your boyfriend should be aware of the risk of pregnancy and not want to put either of you in that situation. He shouldn't make you feel like you should have unprotected sex for any reason (and hope he pulls out in time) because it could end up in an unplanned pregnancy. Without any other contraception being used, a condom is a must unless you both are hoping to have a baby...

As for how to deal with it, if you're using a reliable form of contraception throughout all of the intercourse, tell him beforehand if there're any places on your body you want him to try to avoid and if you don't want semen on your bedcovers put a towel under you. Having some tissue/toilet roll to hand is a great idea to help wipe you up then you can wash your chest straight after if you want to.