Thread: Women pretending to be inexperienced with sex???

So I'll probably get moved to The Lounge again, lol that's cool but here is my latest question.
-Do women "act" like ya'll don't know how to do something/it's your "first" time doing something when ya'll are with a new man?? ....."oh, this is the first time I've done that position" or "I really don't have alot of experience giving blow jobs" or "that's the first time I've ever O'd that way", etc, etc.
-Be honest. I really think many do. I've experienced it too many times. Then a few months later ya'll are all Pros at it. I mean, I suppose it's possible but come on it's not likely especially if your over..oh, 30ish. So either this is the case or my ex's have had some lame sex before me.

I've never pretended I haven't done something I have, but being over 30 doesn't mean you've done it all, I am in my early 30's and still experiencing many sexual things for the first time.

But I can certainly understand why some women of ANY age would act like "is this a penis?" "oh my what should i do with it?" even if they know because some men can be so sensitive in this area. A woman knows if she gives terrible head the guy won't enjoy it, but she knows if she gives it too good instead of just enjoying it he's going to wonder where she got her skills.

I think when you are know you are with a mature, thats into you.. and you can be yourself... its the best feeling in the world... when you don't have to fake innocence or fake being sexual dynamite... you can just feel and do what you want to make them and you feel good without worries of what he'll think either way.

I think when a woman has established she has a secure man that loves her she doesn't fake not knowing how to do things or fake having done things she hasn't. Its really sad that some men can't handle a woman that has a sexual past , yet get frustrated with women that are frigid and don't like sex and a woman over 30 that likes sex is going to have some sort of history of having done it before...

Oh an just to add just because a woman does something with a guy... and seems to know what she is doing very well -- doesn't mean she's done it before. Like in my case I spent many years being celibate and fantasizing about sex and what I wanted to do when I had it... knew what I wanted to feel and how I wanted to touch him etc... and many of the things we did it I probably seemed like I'd done it a bunch before because I'd thought about it so much -- but it was all new to me.

I've never faked not knowing something... but I've only been in one serious relationship since I was 19 so it was totally true that I had never done alot of the things we did. Although...
I can understand why a woman would tell a man that some of the things they are doing together she's never done before, maybe to give him a bit of an ego boost or even to let him know maybe she isn't entirely comfortable but willing to try it with him.
As far as giving bj's... I agree that some women say they don't know how or arent good at it because some men take advantage of it by expect it when a woman is on her cycle or after they have gotten off they are back to watching tv, and that to me is taking advantage. I personally used to love it, I'd do it a few times a day at the start of the relationship because I enjoyed seeing him be pleasured by me. Once he started expecting it and pushing me to do it I didn't enjoy it as much. He quickly realized I'll do more if he lets me decide

Many years ago, after I had had sex for the first time with my (then) new girl friend, as we were leaving the motel, she insisted I saw some drops of “blood” on the bed sheets, and said she had just lost her virginity. She had never told me she was a virgin! I had already been with two virgins before, and it felt very different. Of course, I may be wrong- not two women are alike- but to this day, I can’t help to think it was staged (she had actually been involved in a long term relationship with some guy, and they had been practically engaged). Oh well, she might have had her reasons...