Thread: Help Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alright ladies im getting ready to complain a little bit. And any comment is welcome.
Me and my hubby have been married for 14 yrs. The sex used to be great and very often, like at least 3 to 4 times a week. Then we moved into the new edition of his mother house. It is like our on home, just hers. And no hes not worried or stressed by her. But when we first moved in we were having sex sometimes every day. Now it might be twice every couple of weeks. I am not a skinny woman and he always tells me how pretty i am, so its not my self esteem. I usually ask him if he is in the mood or if he wants to have sex that night. And he told me not to do that to just go ahead and proceed. But when i tried he turned me down. And then he wonders why i get upset. Have any of you had this happen? We do have other issues in our marriage but none that we cant fix just by talking it out. I just cant stand that he gets upset with me when he denies me.
Is there something wrong with me? Like i said i aint skinny but im not a slouch in bed, usually however he wants and whenever he wants it. And i do pay alot of attention to his manhood, with very little attention paid to mine, in regards to oral. He is magical with his hands, but lately he just kind of rushes thru it. So any advice is welcome. Please dont mention leaving him, even thou i thought about, icant do that nor would i.

Thanks again for any advice Men are welcome also

perhaps he found the new accomodations different and exciting at first but now he may find living under mama's roof restricting, such as the bedroom noise factor..no matter how far your bedroom is from hers, it would make me feel less comfortable in that situation

No i dont think that is it. I have asked him that but he says he could care less. We arent loud anyway because we sure dont want to wake the kids up. I completely understand what you are saying tho. Thank you
He seems to think it has something to do with him being sick a few months ago. He pneumonia and was on meds for a month and a half. Steroid packs, infection meds, inhalers, and he quit smoking also. Does anyone think this might have something to do with it.? I quit smoking to so we both can be a little hateful now. So i want to be able to handle this situation without making things worse.