Embarrassed to ask

**attagirl28** · 09-25-2010 06:33 PM

SO my boyfriend and i, last saturday, started getting pretty intimate. It went from watchong a movie to me giving him a bj, which ive never done before. Then on thursday we were at the park at night ( Which i totally cant believe i did it there) and we started getting handsie and i ended up giving him another bj.
I actually really like doing that for him cause he makes the sexiest noises that turn me on. Thing is is tat he hasnt actually made me orgasim. Hes used his fingers and went down on me for a minute but then said i had to put my pants back on cause he was too tempted. Then thursday we kind of had to hurry up cause he had to go home.

I know he isnt purposely doing this, buts like as soon as hes finished we are done getting intimate. Im too embarrassed to ask him. How would i even go about asking him?

**jns** · 09-25-2010 07:01 PM

Guys mostly are ready to go on to other things once they orgasm. Some learn to go on, but many don't. If he gives you all the pleasure you want before he gets his, you will both be satisfied. I can understand him worrying about losing control, it is hard to stop at times. If he gets too turned on by giving you oral, he will have to learn how to finger you so you climax. It may take time. Give him as many pointers as you can as far as how you like his actions. Don't hint, tell him precisely what he has to do.

Tell him you were left hanging by the sudden finish and ask him to spend a lot of time on you this time to make up for it. Tell him you need more time if you do and he gets too ready to go. It would be best if he is paying attention to your upper half when he is fingering you, such as kissing you almost everywhere.

**geedee** · 09-25-2010 11:23 PM

I totally agree with what jns said. You have to help him out.... tell him, whisper it in his ear....

**p3375** · 09-26-2010 02:09 AM

It's like taking a kid to the grocery store - don't buy him the candybar until you've picked up the bread and milk

Pat

**CharlesV** · 09-26-2010 05:22 AM

It should always be ladies first I think.

**eleni** · 09-26-2010 06:12 PM

secretly get yourself almost to orgasm before you mess around together
so that you come pretty much as soon as you start.

then afterwards put your clothes back on and roll over/go on to something else

he'll get all like 'what?!??!?'
and then say something along the lines of - 'well its always over after you orgasm, so same for me right?'

this worked great for me x

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