WARNING! Sex breaking my Hymen stole my pleasure!

**teenie** · 09-26-2010 10:56 PM

I researched stories about losing virginity but never heard this warning.

i just wanted to share, hopefully i am not the only one, but i had sex last night and now i can't even get myself off decently.

Breaking my hymen took away a large portion of pleasure i feel when touching myself. Now touching myself does nothing for me and my orgasms are the weakest they've ever been.

i just want it out there, so it may help someone else save herself for either a special man, when she is right, or marriage. I wish i waited longer just so i could enjoy orgasms longer, now i have no drive because i get no pleasure, when usually i want to cum at least once a day, to 5 times.

I regret it so badly, I'm mourning my own happiness with sex.

**jns** · 09-26-2010 11:10 PM

Give your body a little time to adjust to your new sexual state.

**WildChild** · 09-26-2010 11:49 PM

i'm sure this isn't a permanent problem.

**SidneyAlive** · 09-26-2010 11:49 PM

Breaking your hymen is somewhat of a trauma to your body, as the poster above said, given time you will adjust.

**MoonBunny** · 09-27-2010 12:10 AM

I have never been able to pleasure myself, before or after sex. But one of my friends suggested i use a bullet vibrator and it's amazing! (Sadly it can get me to cum a lot more than my man) so maybe a toy can help you?

**Too Curious** · 09-27-2010 03:46 AM

Originally Posted by jns

Give your body a little time to adjust to your new sexual state.

i agree with you

**teenie** · 09-27-2010 07:22 AM

no, you don't understand....
when i cum i spasm, and the part where i spasm is not there anymore, it's been stretched, so a finger doesn't cut it anymore. My usual method is above my underwear and i just apply pressure and movement, but that doesn't work anymore....there isn't an intense clenching orgasm, just a loose, weak one now. I tried twice, and i gave plenty of time between. There is no adjustment to back how it used to be, i have to find anew method. I'm so ticked off and gutted and upset.

**CharlesV** · 10-01-2010 05:14 AM

Originally Posted by teenie

I researched stories about losing virginity but never heard this warning.

i just wanted to share, hopefully i am not the only one, but i had sex last night and now i can't even get myself off decently.

Breaking my hymen took away a large portion of pleasure i feel when touching myself. Now touching myself does nothing for me and my orgasms are the weakest they've ever been.

How is it now you have had more than 24 hours to get over it?

**teenie** · 10-01-2010 08:05 AM

Still bad. I've stopped doing it daily now because it doesn't feel right anymore. I'm going to a clinic next weekend to get some contraception (nuva ring) to double up with condoms, and so i'll test for STI's and stuff ( i know...too little too late) and then i'll ask her to make sure everything is normal that i'm feeling.