Thread: Help please!!

My boyfriend wants me to give him a bj but i dont know how!! Please help me!! :(

Ooooo you know how, you just don't realize it yet, take it in your mouth and do what comes natural to you, use your tongue and lips and simulate sex, only with your mouth, you might not be so great at it the first time, but you'll do just fine..

My wife will get me wet by licking or taking the head in her mouth and moving up and down. Then will us her hand on the head and lick and blow on my balls and sac, feels great but be careful the balls can be sensitive. It usually doesn't work for her to try to take them into her mouth. Then back and forth between the head and balls with the mouth. Probably more time on the head though. She does not like to have me come in her mouth so I warn her when I about to shoot and she switches to hand and it works fine. Wetter is Better make sure when you are using your hand on the head that it statys well lubricated. It is nice when she switches from hand to mouth because it is warmer and that is nice. Now it is his turn he needs to pay you back with some tongue action.

What if i dont want pay back??

I recall my first BJ...well at least being asked to give one, I've never really lived it down since. I was 16/17 and very nieve. I really hadn't got a clue. So I quite literally did the obvious!! I blew the end of his C*!k unitl I was red in the face. It has to be said he was red in the face too once I came up for air! And no it wasn't form his sheer pleasure, it was from him pi*ing himslef laughing at my efforts.

Now time has moved on....3 kids down the line and I can now thankfully say I think i have a fair idea of what to do!

Just be gentle, tenderly lick his scrotum, paying special attention to the area between his anus and base of his penis. Slowly tease him with hot breaths and the occassional toughing with the tip of your tongue. Once you have his "full attention" take his length, takes practice not to gag! then slowly suck, role your tongue over the tip and massage his scrotum, Be gentle, and don't be tempted to bite, unless of course he is that way inclined and likes pain! It's fair to say nibbling is ok.

Most men like the fact that someone will swollow, it takes a bit to become accustomed to the taste if you're a first timer. There are diffrent foods that can make the cum tatse too strong, such as garlic, or really sweet such as cinomon .

I hope this is of some use? Just remember, there is not really a wrong or right way to do a BJ, unless of course you are as nieve as I was!

Have fun

" What if i dont want pay back?? "


You do.

What do you do when your done??

clean it up. put some towels down if you don't want to change the sheets after, and have some hand towels or paper towels handy to clean up after, and maybe a glass of water nearby if you want to get rid of the taste. Then cuddle with him, have some pillow talk, ask him if he enjoyed it. Ask him if there's anything you can do next time to make it better... you will get better at it each time, just communicate with him about what he likes and doesn't like. You'll do fine.

Which one is better swollow or spit??

Well thats really up to you, there is not a man alive that doesn't love it when you swallow, for myself I think it's a little insulting if you spit, plus then you have to clean it up. There isn't much taste to it, so I just swallow the stuff, but to each her own...