Quote Originally Posted by jns View Post
cg, nothing wrong with chasing your dreams. Experience is useful for the right guy. Experience but the wrong guy is a disaster. No experience, but the right guy is something the two of you can work on. Find some guy who will be comfortable having you in his family. He should defend you and take your side. You should do the same for him, allowing for his role as a man. This is necessary for same race and interracial as well as culturally similar and culturally divergent couples. Find someone who is sensitive and perceptive about the way different groups of people view things and interact. Good luck.
Thanks...and I know if I married someone who was a virgin or who isn't white, I'd still be happy no matter what...I just find men like that very attractive, and just wanted to know if I was wrong for feeling that way.