how to find the g spot??

**sianie87** · 10-09-2010 06:45 AM

i can never seem to find my g spot at all maybe im going about it wrong? also i would love to have a more intense orgasm and a better orgasm!! any ideas??

**WildChild** · 10-09-2010 08:53 AM

The tissue of the g spot has a different texture. It's knubby? The vaginal walls are pretty smooth, the g spot isn't. Its pretty easy to find, not far in. If you insert a finger and feel upwards, you should find it. Stimulating your self to orgasm with it, however, may be another another story.

It isn't a magic button, find it, press it, orgasm. My recent former partner hit it in intercourse just about everytime, it was like he was made for that, for me. My current partner and many past sexual partners just don't get there. Personally using toys for g spot stimulation or fingers just doesn't take it over the top for me, but I'm working on it.

You will have to experiement. Most (not all - some can be rather skittish of anything new) men in your life are happy to play with your girl parts and assist in your research. Keep at it, I'm sure you will have fun making progress.

jr · 10-29-2010 09:03 PM

It's a spongey mass of tissue, that varies in size from a raisin to a small almond that is located on the upper vaginal wall near the pubic bone. So insert a finger, middle works best, and reach up towards your tummy button. You should bump right into it. If not, feel around in that general area and you find it.

I would take it one step further than WC suggested above.....and that is to encourage your partner to find it too. You'll both be glad you did !

**Casey715** · 11-01-2010 10:22 PM

I could not find it. Sticking a finger in and "reaching up towards the belly button" got me halfway there. Now listen up cause this is the best sexual secrete I have, lol. But really, get her turned on. Slide that middle finger in and do a motion like your telling someone to come here, like in a crowed and loud place. Do that motion, the come here one, and she will....cum here. rofl!!!! Hope that doesn't get me a slap on the wrist. lol

jr · 11-02-2010 06:22 AM

For a more technical answer to your question, see the thread started by Shweedart on this subject.

**TJPatriot** · 11-02-2010 11:53 PM

I used to think I knew exactly where the g spot was. With my ex-fiancee if I put either of my two longer fingers in fully and pushed up, she'd go nuts. So I figured that was the g spot. Yeah, that doesn't do anything for my current girlfriend, and that knubby mass is a lot closer to the front...oops. You live and learn I suppose...

**WildChild** · 11-03-2010 12:07 AM

Ah well, we are each a bit different. Mine is certainly bigger than a raisin or almond and not so far in. You'll just have to experiment.

**Little_Man_in_the_Boat** · 11-03-2010 08:08 AM

Everbody wants the easy way to orgasm, few if any realise it aint that simple.

Like anything in life, nothing worth anything comes easy.

Forget about this gspot thing its merely a distration.

Gently caressing the body is affective way of achieving orgasm.

Guys that ram their fingers in and out like a womens vagina ilike their vagina is a bore of an engine and the finger a piston - this is just so stupid and so horribly pathetic . I just laugh at that.

**Hmmm Really?** · 11-07-2010 08:14 AM

Not trying to sound "prolific", but the g-spot comes out when it wants to. It can be stimulated once it peeks out many ways. the trick is to get it interested enough to peak out, once it's out you can get to it without trying hard, even jabbing blindly if you have good intensions.

That spongy tissue in the top of "vag walls" is not gonna be your friend until you learn to shake it's hands. It's starts with a glass of wine and good convo at a nice restaurant for dinner, if you wait until the bedroom to introduce yourself, it knows you are after it for your own personal gain and won't give you more than a wave or head nod of acknowledgement as it moves away from you. The trick is to never let it see you coming and kiss it on the hand at introduction while telling it you know all about it and are it's biggest fan. Courting the g-spot is essentially as effort heavy as courting a respectable woman. Let it know it can be vulnerable around you. Let it know you want what's best for it even if it doesn't trust you completely.

**ManINeedACoffee** · 11-07-2010 07:04 PM

I think the g-spot is a little overrated...

I've found what Cosmo told me to look for - that spongy mass of tissue that, when you apply pressure to it, makes you feel slightly like you have to pee. I'll find it, continue to apply pressure, and wind up having to pee worse than I've ever had to pee in my entire life. Even when my boyfriend hits it...it doesn't feel particularly "good." I'm not sure mine is terribly responsive, no matter how aroused I am. I'm okay with that, though. The clitoris works great for me.

Although I like your approach there, Hmmm.