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Does being selfish regarding sex come naturally to women? My wife refuses to give me a blowjob but is more than happy for me to go down on her. Is she being selfish?
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Over the past couple years I've gave out about 20 zillion bjs and was essentially untouched. Sexually selfish people come in both genders and all ages.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
Most people are selfish when it comes to sex. Pleasing themselves is a major part of it.
Unlike, WC..
I find it erotic...
BJ's are sexually rewarding to me.. But i have the same partner, Which may effect such reasoning..
I love my partner, and he me...
I love the all sensory,, visual, scent, touch,,Ohh, my.., i am giving a bit much here...
well, i believe it is whom you are with..and for how long.. LOL
A while ago I was in a 2-year relationship... he got BJ's almost every day, but never wanted to go down on me. And for me, that is one of the few ways I am able to orgasm, so it was incredibly frustrating for me and he didn't seem to care. He was very selfish, unfortunately I was unable to change it. You should try talking to your wife at least, let her know that it frustrates you and what you two can do about it as a couple. It is unfair, but it won't change unless you talk about it.
How can you see where you're going if you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder? –Naughty Ninja
It was entirely with the same man. I enjoyed pleasuring him. But when there is virtually no reciprocation, it starts to wear thin after a few years.Originally Posted by Olympia
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
You are correct.. i never faced the lack of reciprocation..
I do receive, XX again, not just give...!!
To the OP, yes she is being very selfish. No question about it. Ofcouse you have talked to her about it and really tried to understand just what it is that is keeping her from giving you BJ's. What was her reply?
I am happy because I am content with who I am. My wife is not responsible for my happiness, she enhances my happiness because she is so good to me.
Yes, she is being selfish. No, it's not natural for women to be sexually selfish.
There are many cases of both men and women who behave in this manner.
Talk to her about it and be firm.
Try suggesting flavoured condoms! Maybe she doesn't like the taste or smell of your penis. Or you could try flavoured lube!
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