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    Default Vibrator vs Oral

    Of course we know both feel good, but in you gals opinion, which do you enjoy more?

    Having him Use a Vibrator or Oral?

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    Oral, because I would rather get off on HIS doing, not by a vibrator. It's so much more intimate, and imo orgasms are so much better when it's also an emotional experience.
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    I never use a vibrator if there is a man in my bed. I can use a toy on my own. If I have to use a toy to get myself off while he does nothing for me. What happens then? He gets to use my body for his orgasm?? I'd get him one of the fake vaginas and then watch. I don't understand why men buy toys for women to use during sex. A toy does not take the place of a man's hands and mouth.

    I don't understand why woman go for toys while there is a man present, am I missing something!! I think if a man insist upon toys then he should also use toys as a substitute to her hands mouth and vagina. Men have a hard time understanding the concept of mutuality in sex and woman are so accommodating they don't turn things around. They just stop having sex. If men got it they would have more sex but, there you are.

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    you are going to ruin it for us men allie if you are going to bring logic into the equation
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    Quote Originally Posted by dr.mansview View Post
    you are going to ruin it for us men allie if you are going to bring logic into the equation
    You are so cute - I don't think men have anything to worry about. Sex and logic are never good bedfellows, takes all the fun out of it. : }

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie602 View Post
    You are so cute - I don't think men have anything to worry about. Sex and logic are never good bedfellows, takes all the fun out of it. : }
    hmmmmm..i resemble that remark
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    If I am wanting to get some inner warm fuzzys that cannot be explained other than my bf doing something to me then I would choose oral. If I want to choose an orgasm then it has to be the vibrator (since these are the only two choices). Oral cannot mimic the pressure on my clit from rubbing it or the feeling of 'being full' vaginally (and no the fingers do not do this) as is the case when I use the vibrator so yeah if I am wanting an orgasm then it ends up being from the vibrator.
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    I enjoy oral but rarely orgasm from it. If I have a man in my life, what I want and need is just what he has. Vibrators, for me, are a rare use item.
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    Is the Orgasm stronger from Vibrators or Oral? I wouldnt know the difference cause my bf, only uses vibrator on me everytime :/, I havent even seen him naked lol were together now for quiet a while now.

    He wont tell me anything, im wondering if the Vibrator might be ruining something between us .

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    How old are you? If you are both below 20 or so, maybe he is not that ready for more than what he could offer you now.

    To answer your query, orgasms differ from person to person. I don't do vibrators, and I do enjoy oral, but it's not enough to get me off. I prefer full, deep penetration.
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