Want fantasy to become reality!

**lovie33** · 10-13-2010 11:51 AM

Hi, me and my husband have been using fantasy during sex. I love it. I get so excited I can't stand it. I have past bi experiences and group experiences (before married) and enjoyed them and he wants to see me do it. I want to do it too, and would also like to get him involved in the action. My problem is I don't know how to go about getting it started without ruining friedships or being shot down, any suggestions???

**WildChild** · 10-13-2010 11:56 AM

Ummm
Keep it a fantasy? Talk it rather than do it?

**LanaBear** · 10-13-2010 12:20 PM

Some fantasies are better kept that way. Anytime you are physically bringing in a third person to your bedroom, all sorts of feelings and emotions will probably come into play.

This may be a good thread to read... It's a sticky situation.

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...-jealousy.html

**LadySue** · 10-13-2010 01:22 PM

I would suggest that if you really want this to happen then you should join an adult friend finding site. Of course you both need to be totally secure with the idea before making it a reality. Perhaps it would be advisable to advertise yourselves as a couple looking to meet another couple with similar interests. I would think it best to steer clear of friends and aquaintances.

**skirt99** · 10-14-2010 04:01 PM

As you have had previous bi experiences, I take it that you must know some willing women. You might start by discussing things with a previous partner and find out if she might be interested. If so, then you could explore the possibilities with your husband. But tread very carefully! As others have mentioned, this is a delicate situation.

**Jimbeau** · 10-16-2010 04:13 PM

You could start by doing something short of a full blown three-way. How about hiring an attractive massage therapist to give you a couples massage? There's nothing even illegal about it if you provide each others' happy endings while she cheers you on.

**Texasred** · 10-16-2010 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

You could start by doing something short of a full blown three-way. How about hiring an attractive massage therapist to give you a couples massage? There's nothing even illegal about it if you provide each others' happy endings while she cheers you on.

That sounds both fun and safe.

**Colorado** · 11-06-2010 02:38 AM

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

You could start by doing something short of a full blown three-way. How about hiring an attractive massage therapist to give you a couples massage? There's nothing even illegal about it if you provide each others' happy endings while she cheers you on.

Really?! Can you really do this? I have to say that comes very close to one of our fanatsies (the wife and I). I'll have to explain further sometime

Btw: We've just run across this forum tonight and after reading some of the topics and dicussions, it prompted me to join. Hope I'm not intruding on anything, but I had to ask the question after reading your suggestion.

**WildChild** · 11-06-2010 09:23 AM

Originally Posted by Colorado

Really?! Can you really do this? I have to say that comes very close to one of our fanatsies (the wife and I). I'll have to explain further sometime

You just might find something in Westword or The Onion.

**Colorado** · 11-06-2010 02:01 PM

You just might find something in Westword or The Onion.

Wow WildChid, you are right! That was fun to research, and I can tell you that you have rekindled an older fatasy of ours.
Just thinking about the possibilities got me all wound up :0) ...and it looks like she has more than a little something on her mind now too.
I might just get lucky thi morning!