Thread: how to masturbate without fingering.

Very good information above! Having sex or masturbating are not perverted and are not things to be ashamed about - don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

I am a virgin myself (not because I think sex is bad, but because I haven't found the right guy), but I do get myself off a lot, at least once a day. Instead of worrying about fingering yourself, work on rubbing your clitoris and seeing what feels good - the clitoris is much more sensitive than the vagina and is the seat of a woman's sexual pleasure. Most women cannot orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone. When I masturbate, I just roll my clitoris in between my index and middle fingers - the glans is far too sensitive to stimulate directly by rubbing the vulval area. Have you had an orgasm before? It is the single greatest feeling in the world and I can't believe I lived the first 19 years of my life without having one.

Find out what turns you on and have some fun by yourself. I almost always use some kind of visual aid while masturbating - porn, erotic literature, even just a movie with a guy I find attractive - and let my imagination carry me away. Fantasize all you want about whoever/whatever your heart desires at the moment - after all, it's your brain and no one can read your thoughts. Don't feel ashamed or repress your sexual fantasies! It seems like a lot of women don't know what makes them aroused. It's pretty simple... Look at or read something erotic, and when you feel a bunch of blood rush into your clitoris and your vagina becomes lubricated, you know you've found something that turns you on. Sexual arousal is a physiological reflex to certain erotic stimuli - it's just a matter of finding out what gets your juices going.

Most importantly of all, have fun!

thanks a lot.. well I tried touching and rubbing my clitoris passionately, and yeah feel the pleasure, the heat and something I can't explain but It's really great... I did it while reading a mature manga full of erotic sex but i tend to feel envy by doing it alone without a partner. some of my readings though says that it give more pleasure by doing it with someone (but I want to find my right man first). about touching my body...my breast.. I really don't know where to start eve i start fantasizing having sex with a man .. I end up squeezing my breast but there something missing i didn't feel a great pleasure at all.

Only rubbing my clitoris make me feel dizzy, pleasured and make me wet though there still missing. i think i still have something liquid (lubricant) to produce yet the pleasure i feel is not enough to satisfy me. I don't want to use any other thing to insert inside of me though other say it feels good.

wildchild I am 18 y/o am I too young for this? I want to have fun-- is it alright to do this thing everyday??? though it only lasted me a a few minutes.

It is perfectly normal to masturbate. I am 19 and masturbate almost daily. I am a virgin like yourself. It is perfectly ok to do this every day. What I did when I was still living with my parents was I would take my cellphone and put it on vibrate and hold it against my clitoris. Then I would call my cellphone with my home phone. It feels really good.

Originally Posted by Katie127

What I did when I was still living with my parents was I would take my cellphone and put it on vibrate and hold it against my clitoris. Then I would call my cellphone with my home phone. It feels really good.

Bummer though when you're just about to climax and it goes to voice mail.

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

Bummer though when you're just about to climax and it goes to voice mail.

Yeah it takes good timing.

There are sooo many answers to this. When I was a teen, I used to "hump" the arm of a big easy chair. After a while I could get off quite easily and it was good practice for being on top with a man.
Another way I like is using my shower massage. Set it on "pulse," aim it at that special spot and things will get interesting. One more, which I have never actually tried but a girlfriend told me she uses is an electric tooth brush. You put a washcloth or towel between the vibrating end and your body. She says it works great on trips because there is no need to carry a vibrator that might prove embarassing when going through security or customs.