Thread: Losing my Virginity

Hi I'm Katie, and I'm new to the site. Actually just signed up like 10 minutes ago. Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for like 3 months and I know he wants to have sex. We have done a bunch of oral but have never gone all the way. I need to talk to someone about it. I have y!mail and yahoo messenger which I would prefer talking over. Thanks ladies!

what would you like to talk about katie? we can always talk on here! it will be able to help you as well as others...
i think we need some more info tho

Ok, well I just don't know what to expect. I don't have my hymen anymore so that's not an issue, but I have never had anything in there but tampons and my fingers. I can hardly get one finger in there, how is he supposed to fit?!

He is also about a solid 8 inches! How is that supposed to fit!!!

Here we go again!
There isn’t a single medium size penis on this forum!? :- )

It's ok Trying Hard. You just have to be creative is all. So in the long run, you will probably be better in the sack than that 10 inch guy. But enough off topic haha.

Touché!! My point exactly. I said there isn’t a single one here. We’re all monsters :- )
Is the guy gentle to you? You should go slow, very slow.
Leave some of the frantic, rougher stuff for later, just in case.
All the best to you!

well my wife and I had sex we didn't talk about it. Mine is kinda medium. lol its 5 or 6 inches.

Thanks Try Hard. Yeah he tends to be pretty gentle. He was when he broke my hymen a couple of months ago that is.

Do you want to lose your virginity to this guy? Or would you be losing it to please him because he wants to have sex? Is he a virgin too? Don't do anything without thinking about it. Plus, you guys have only been going out 3 months. Do you really know what kind of guy he is? Not being judgmental, just think these are questions you need to ask yourself. I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend at 16 after we dated for 3 months and we went through the "you're the one!" phase...we dated for 3 years. Just please don't do anything for the sake of pleasing him. If he's not willing to wait until you're ready (if you're not), then he is not the one.
And it is only normal that you are so tight- you are a virgin. It will be a little painful the first couple of times, but it does get better after a while. And yes, just stress to him to be gentle and TELL HIM if he is hurting you too badly. Make sure and use lubrication.