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    LOL
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    is it coz ED, i have no idea... i just read in web about strap-on and saw it was used by woman on men, which i was horrified... why would women use it on a man...

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    Men use it on women too.
    Because it feels good.
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    i thot women use on men, as i saw and was thinking why would it be used in men by women...

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    This is actually fairly common. Many men really enjoy it, Many women enjoy both giving and recieving in this way too.
    What your parents do sexually really isn't your business. Best to leave this alone.
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    For all you know it could be a gag gift someone bought them for their anniversery or that they won as a joke at some after hours office party. Just because you found them doesn't mean they are using them and if they are using them it doesn't mean your mom is using it on your dad, and it doesn't mean he has ED... it could be any number of reasons they use it and it could be that they've never used them at all.

    You are HERE... and alive because your parents had sex, they probably still have it... they might not, who knows... you just hope that they are healthy and happy and love each other because thats all that matters. You don't look in the toilet after they poop if they forgot to flush the toilet, you simply say ew and flush it and move on with your day, same should be done for their sexual toys etc...

    Don't worry yourself about what they do... no one wants to think of their parents being sexual beings even though its the very nature of their being that which is what lead us to be alive in the first place... but it is what it is.
    Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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    i know...its that after knowing that i felt wired... and wanted to tell someone and free my mind... i felt wired like mom using that on dad and they like on their 50's...

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    50 seems old when you are young, but when you are 50 you can still feel young. Many people have passionate exciting sex until very late in life. Also don't get the idea that people were more "innocent" in the past - people have been having all sorts of kinky fun for thousands of years.

    I know it is shocking to find out your parents engage in non-traditional sex, but I think its a LOT better than if they had no sex life. This means they are still enjoying each other, still fascinated and excited by each other. Think how sad it would be if they lived together for decades and didn't have a great sex life.

    It is just as shocking to parents when they find out that their "little girl" is having sex.

    As far as what they are doing with these "toys" - there are lots of possibilities, but nothing new - people have been doing all these things for a very long time. As long as they both enjoy what they are doing - great!

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    I think your winding us all up...

    You want to buy bathers for your Mum, we suggested not to, rather a hat, sundress, something over it, that's a personal thing but you ignored it.

    Then, your Mum and Dad, in their 50's have a stap on, so what your 30?

    And, then anal sex, you've had it once, but can't recall how it works..

    And, then ah forget it, HD called troll, I agree.

    After all multiple, IP addresses, all previous banned, all the same type of writing, context....

    Threads all closed.

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    It doesn't happen over night
    if truth were to be told.

    Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
    you must believe!

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