help me to over come, but dont mis understand me....

**mia3001** · 10-21-2010 02:27 PM

hey alll
sory for telling smethng lke this, but i dont have anyone to tell or ask this, so thot of telling you all... its that i was looking for some files in my parent closet and i found this stuff. they was wrist cuffs and a Strap-on dildo and lubricants. im soo upset after seen that, because my parents are in there mid 50's. why would they use them in this age. who use strap-on dildo and for what!! i feel soo upset now. its like feeling guilt...

**ManINeedACoffee** · 10-21-2010 02:39 PM

Ah, don't worry too much about it, mia. They may be in their 50's, but they're not dead - if they're still close enough to want an adventurous sex life together, then I think it's great.

Perhaps you're simply upset because it was your parents? Nobody likes to think of their parents as sexual beings, but they are - they're human too.

You're never too old for toys, in my opinion. And you're never too old to have a healthy sex life with your partner.

**Anon_1990** · 10-21-2010 02:48 PM

I wouldn't beleive that your parents wouldnt use all that stuff, come on they're not exactly old.

Let them get on with it I say, deny seeing them, or just say nothing at all.

**kristalyn_04** · 10-21-2010 02:55 PM

...and that's exactly why we don't go snooping around our parent's closets lol.

Aw don't worry about it, there's nothing wrong about what you found, you're just a little weird-ed out because it's your parents. Just try to forget about it and move on like you never saw anything.

I once walked in on my parents 69-ing when I was 6 years old, I was very confused lol but just acted like I never saw anything. It didn't scar me for life or anything and I got over it!

**mia3001** · 10-21-2010 03:19 PM

coz i didnt expect that... i knew they might be having sex, but i didnt expect stuff like that... i was soo confused to see a strap-on... who is using that and for what :O

**WildChild** · 10-21-2010 03:32 PM

Originally Posted by mia3001

coz i didnt expect that... i knew they might be having sex, but i didnt expect stuff like that... i was soo confused to see a strap-on... who is using that and for what :O

I could give you several possiblities (I'm over 50 too) but you probably don't want to know. Just accept that as we get older, if we are physically and emotionally healthy, we continue to want and enjoy sex and we should be more skilled and even better at it. Just think of what you have to look forward to, a lifetime of good sex!

**mia3001** · 10-21-2010 03:43 PM

dont misunderstand me asking this... for what do we use a strap-on dildo??? sry for asking this

**ItsASecret** · 10-21-2010 03:54 PM

for what do we use a strap-on dildo??? sry for asking this

Mostly anal penetration.

**WildChild** · 10-21-2010 04:14 PM

Or if a man has ED or PE he may use it to satisfy the woman. It goes as long as you want it to.

**shweedart** · 10-21-2010 04:21 PM

ED being erectile disfunction...in other words problems with keeping a boner. Which isnt uncommon.

Simply using it on eachother, it'd be a different sensation, different size, different width.

And 50 isn't old by any means!

I remember getting a pair of socks out of my mums draw and seeing a condom wrapper...I was horrified but I'm well over it!