Fiance want to Cum In my mouth, HELP PLEASE.

**Yazmin** · 10-21-2010 06:29 PM

My fiance and i have good sex, after doing the same olds he has this new crave. He want to cum in my mouth. Am not sure i like thta, ive never tryed it and affraid of the taste or even doing it. I promised and failed to even attempt. He doesnt seem to understand am not very comfortable with that. Advice or experiance girls ?

**Agony_Aunt** · 10-21-2010 06:38 PM

I understand that you want to please your man. I am one of those people who hates giving blow j's or anything to do with them.
My partner had wanted to try them, but same as you, I wasn't comfortable at all with it, so I told him how I felt about it and he respected that i felt un-comfortable and that was it.

If you're not comfortable and it's something you don't want to do, then don't. I'm sure he loves you and will understand how you feel and respect your choice.

**shweedart** · 10-21-2010 07:04 PM

I enjoy giving head but I can't swallow, makes me gag/almost vomit but thats because the texture reminds me of phlegm...I cant even eat jelly cos it wobbles!

If your bf has a healthy diet an eats a lot of fruit it shouldn't taste bad and may even be quite sweet.

When my bf's about to cum I only keep the end in my mouth so that when he does cum it doesn't hit the back of my throat. After he has, I excuse myself to the bathroom and spit it in the toilet and rinse my mouth with water afterwards (he's not happy with tasting himself)

Ask him to let you know when he's about to cum!

The other heads up I can give you:
It'll be warm and quick.

Have you given him head before without him cumming in your mouth?

**rcoreyus** · 10-21-2010 11:17 PM

This is really important to some men, so its worth giving it a try. Is he willing to do all sorts of things that you want in bed?

**Yazmin** · 10-22-2010 05:35 AM

Yes I have, His precum doesnt taste that bad but he's never came in my mouth before.

**Jimbeau** · 10-22-2010 07:21 AM

Originally Posted by shweedart

After he has, I excuse myself to the bathroom and spit it in the toilet and rinse my mouth with water afterwards (he's not happy with tasting himself)

I doubt I'd want a woman to do it if she found it that disgusting. Having your lover jump up out of bed kind of kills the atmosphere. If she didn't swallow I'd just pass on that activity. But then I'm one of those few weird guys who prefers a hj to a bj.

**ItsASecret** · 10-22-2010 08:35 AM

Having your lover jump up out of bed kind of kills the atmosphere.

And having him unload in the mouth in the first place kills the atmosphere for many women...but not all guys would ask to pass on it like you do. They still want and sometimes expect their women to take it regardless of how aweful the taste or texture may be.

**rcoreyus** · 10-22-2010 08:38 AM

Finishing in the mouth, swallowing, spitting, etc - different things matter to different people. Its worth finding out what part of the experience is really important to him. Maybe he doesn't mind if you spit it out. Maybe he's happy with you doing it with a condom.

Again though, only do this for him if he is willing to do things that you want in bed. Sex is best if each of you tries to do everything the other likes, and much of the fun of sex is watching your partner enjoy themselves.

**SSDS** · 10-22-2010 08:49 AM

I guess this really isn't that big a deal for me. I have sometimes not swallowed, sometimes I have, sometimes I spit after. I think what is important here is that you guys discuss that there are actually options. I like my boyfriend to tell me he's about to ejaculate, then I can decide what I feel like doing at that moment.

I will add that though that be willing to try something purely for the other person is sometimes enough. Maybe you won't like it, but at least you've given it a shot. lol Keep in mind that maybe someday you might want to try something and he doesn't. It is all about flexibility. And I'm not quite sure how to say this without being overly graphic, but the further in he is, the less you taste anything.

**shweedart** · 10-22-2010 09:03 AM

'I doubt I'd want a woman to do it if she found it that disgusting'
(the quote thing wouldn't work)

I dont find it disgusting my any means. I find the texture un-swallowable...as I said, I can't even eat jelly.

Give it a go

if you don't like it then you tried. He can still have a BJ but maybe he'll be happy with finishing somewhere on your body...like boobs

..like a charm!