Need advice for sexy/romantic present for GF

**Volume** · 10-22-2010 12:05 PM

Hi all!

First of all, glad to see that there is a forum filled with woman! Im sure i can get a lot of good tips here

So im a guy and i've been dating with my gf for 20 months! Last month we were home alone and she bought this sexy set for me. So she asked me to get some drink from downstairs and when i went back, she was only wearing the sexy set, lying on the bed. It was really what i wanted

So anyway, tomorrow we are homealone again and im going to invite her. But this time, i want to surprise her with something. I really want something sexy, romantic but still hot. Something she won't get out of her head for a month or so. Does anyone have a nice idea for this, perhaps what you would like to see, or something a boy ever did for you?

We have about 1.5/2 hours, so that would be enough. I was self thinking of candles, roses, some nice smelling fragrance. Any other suggestions? She doesn't really like toys and the purpose of this sex session is not only sex sex sex, she wants hot sex, romance and cuddling(after the sex ofcourse)

I was thinking about this: I have a sleep eye mask. Wanted her to lay down, put on that sleep eye mask. And while thats on, I decor the room, for example with the candles and roses. After im ready I arouse her a little bit, take of her clothes, get her in good mood, and then take the eye mask off.

So if you have any ideas/suggestions, about what I could do, you are welcome to post them

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-22-2010 03:18 PM

No replies?

Could be because what you've just described sounds perfect...

I don't think you need to add anything at all into it, go for it...

CW

**Volume** · 10-22-2010 04:09 PM

Really? Thanks

It's just that, it sounded a little bit as a standard thing. But i guess you're right.

Ill see if i can make up something, and maybe see any new suggestions in this topic. But as you said, it will be something like i described above.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-22-2010 04:41 PM

Okay, hold it

When you put the mask on, walk towards a wall, gently, moving her backwards until she is against the wall, slowly, grab her hands, hold them, then slowly lift them up high, against the wall and kiss her softly... Then move her towards the bed

Then you forgot something

Music, put that on first so she has sound

And, put the mask on before you enter the bedroom, that way the candles are lit, rose petals maybe, on the bed, are there, which she will feel as she lays down and you don't have to light the candles or anything, they're done...

**Volume** · 10-22-2010 05:19 PM

Aaah thanks! I will definitely get that in the plan. Hope the music will work because the last time the music player was broke and I don't wanna use the laptop where you hear crappy quality music.

I really like the thing moving her towards the wall

I was thinking about placing the candles around in the room, but also one on the floor, saying ''I(L)U''.

I just tought of something: After the sex, when we both lay naked, I let her close her eyes, and take a full-rose(which i would have hide somewhere) and place it on her body. And before I let her open her eyes, i whisper that i love her and let her open her eyes.... Or shouldn't i place a full-rose since i already used roses? I could also place a present for her but I don't know what present i should buy then:P And I don't have that much to spend since im not payed off yet.

**LanaBear** · 10-22-2010 05:27 PM

Also, a nice erotic/sensual massage... Maybe while she's blindfolded, that way she doesn't know where you are at or where you are going, it heightens her other senses and ratchets up the pleasure.

Other than that, you've got it going on!!! Have fun and good luck!

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 10-22-2010 05:49 PM

I love the idea of the candle placements

I don't think you in addition need a rose as well, you have the petals, and the candle spelling it out, just say it softly to her when you hold her after

**Jimbeau** · 10-22-2010 07:02 PM

I guess I'm hopelessly practical but I'd make her a nice dinner. If you can't cook select some fancy take-out.

**WildChild** · 10-22-2010 07:18 PM

How about finger foods? You can feed each other.

**Volume** · 10-23-2010 02:42 AM

About the food: I was planning to place a table in the corrider, next to her room. On the table i was thinking of exotic fruits(mango etc), since she really likes that. But to come think of; she will be coming from work and probably be hungry, so i think a nice chinese dinner wouldn't be bad? Maybe after wards the exotic fruits.
But is it good to do the whole plan right after she eats. I was thinking to let the food first go down, or doesn't that matter?

What about this: I make/buy her a nice chinese meal, let her finish it downstairs. In meanwhile, I prepare the whole thing upstairs. I also prepare the table in the corrider, which a couple of exotic fruits. Then blindfold her and do the whole thing?

Lanabear,
Great idea. I was already thinking about a massage, but i tought it might be too much of the good thing. But since she just comes from work, a massage wouldn't be bad.
Maybe an offtopic question: Does anyone know how to get your hands warm as fast as possible ?