Thread: Vaginal orgasm?

I enjoy sex. A lot. I love my boyfriend, I love the physical intimacy we share, I love doing it. However, I have never been able to orgasm during sex. I can make myself orgasm, he can make me orgasm in other ways, but when it comes to sex: nothing. I love the feeling I get from sex, but there's no orgasm. Why is this? I heard that in order to make a girl orgasm during sex, some girls need to have their clitoris stimulated. I've tried that, and it doesn't feel very good when he's inside me... Is there any way I can get to the Big O during sex?

Please help!

Some people never do, keep trying new positions, you may find the magic somewhere, if not, just enjoy the sex for him, the sensations and the closeness!!

It may be psychological instead of physical. You may be thinking about other things when you're having intercourse than what you think when you're getting yourself off. Try having a really naughty fantasy while you're having sex and see if that does the trick. As they say, your brain is your biggest erogenous zone.

One other thought: after he makes you cum some other way and then switches to intercourse, it may be possible for you to have a second orgasm. For some women I've been with, that's the only way they can acheive orgasm during intercourse.