questions of a newb

**obnoxious** · 10-27-2010 10:54 PM

so i was just wondering...how deep is the average vagina? do they have the capacity to stretch longer or contract shorter to fit a penis? and do any women enjoy men hitting their cervix during sex?

i have a short pecker, and i know women value girth over length, and mine is right around 5 inches around... is this girth too thin?

**ItsASecret** · 10-28-2010 08:41 AM

You are fine so do not worry about your size. As for the average, an unrelaxed vagina is only about 2-3 inches in depth. It is once it becomes relaxed/aroused/stimulated etc that it becomes accommodating to almost any size. If a doctor were going to take a ruler to it while it was aroused they would likely say in the 5-7 inch range but that tissue is like a rubber band so it will still stretch if a penis is larger. My boyfriend is 7 1/2 inches and it is just fine unless of course it is from behind then it can hurt. All women are different, some cannot 'take' more than 6-7 inches and some say they have been with 10 with no problems. Cervix wise, yes it hurts if it is pounded. Then there are women who enjoy it.

**obnoxious** · 10-28-2010 03:17 PM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

You are fine so do not worry about your size. As for the average, an unrelaxed vagina is only about 2-3 inches in depth. It is once it becomes relaxed/aroused/stimulated etc that it becomes accommodating to almost any size. If a doctor were going to take a ruler to it while it was aroused they would likely say in the 5-7 inch range but that tissue is like a rubber band so it will still stretch if a penis is larger. My boyfriend is 7 1/2 inches and it is just fine unless of course it is from behind then it can hurt. All women are different, some cannot 'take' more than 6-7 inches and some say they have been with 10 with no problems. Cervix wise, yes it hurts if it is pounded. Then there are women who enjoy it.

thanks for the answers...

but what i was wondering is, ur BF can fit it in all the way...does that mean he can reach ur cervix (obviously u stated he can from rear entry) but what about head on? also, does he stretch you upon entry or are you even deeper than 7.5 inches and you fit him like a glove or what...i guess i'm just trying to understand/imagine the dynamics since i'm only a shade over 5 inches in length...and i've seen videos with guys who look like their a foot long just ram it in there.

**ItsASecret** · 10-28-2010 03:40 PM

i guess i'm just trying to understand/imagine the dynamics since i'm only a shade over 5 inches in length...and i've seen videos with guys who look like their a foot long just ram it in there.

First off I would avoid using photoshop edited penis ramming as a basis for understanding. It is all fake and those women are likely not enjoying his foot long penis slamming at 50 beats per second. As for 5 inches, that places you in the normal bracket so you will not have a problem with a woman not feeling you. My boyfriend can get it in all the way from behind, on top, edge of the bed, me on top...anything. Once he hits my cervix though it hurts. If he tries to penetrate me without any prep fingering to stretch me I get mad because it hurts. No arousal no nothing and just penetrate causes uncomfortable stretching which I do not want and he cannot get it in there without me being aroused because the actual physical vaginal muscles have not yet relaxed.

**waya** · 10-28-2010 03:55 PM

Different positions can shorten the length of the vaginal canal and yes it can stretch. Personally I think an average size is good because you have more options. I can feel very full with an average-sized man in certain positions.

Oh, and again this is just me, I like some contact with my cervix but only every now and then.

**obnoxious** · 10-28-2010 08:24 PM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

First off I would avoid using photoshop edited penis ramming as a basis for understanding. It is all fake and those women are likely not enjoying his foot long penis slamming at 50 beats per second. As for 5 inches, that places you in the normal bracket so you will not have a problem with a woman not feeling you. My boyfriend can get it in all the way from behind, on top, edge of the bed, me on top...anything. Once he hits my cervix though it hurts. If he tries to penetrate me without any prep fingering to stretch me I get mad because it hurts. No arousal no nothing and just penetrate causes uncomfortable stretching which I do not want and he cannot get it in there without me being aroused because the actual physical vaginal muscles have not yet relaxed.

OK i think i get it now...once u hit or reach the cervix u can't really go any further. thanks again, and sorry if my questions sounds stupid cuz honestly the only thing i know about sex is based on what my boys have told me. that and of course porn.

**Jimbeau** · 10-28-2010 09:25 PM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

If a doctor were going to take a ruler to it while it was aroused

That would require an interesting doctor-patient relationship.

**ItsASecret** · 10-28-2010 09:55 PM

That would require an interesting doctor-patient relationship.

lol we are not talking porno "lets teach you what anatomy is girly!" doctor-patient work *quivers*. It is simple psych research, sex therapy research, anatomy research. All the data had to come from somewhere...most basic is measure a penis and measure the vagina while in that arousal state. They stick metal prods and razor blades in there...I am sure the early data collection from a ruler was an okay thing in terms of "doctor patient relationship".

**obnoxious** · 10-28-2010 11:33 PM

Originally Posted by Jimbeau

That would require an interesting doctor-patient relationship.

well research is research, and is what differentiates humans from animals.

scientists have thrown a chick into an MRI and told her her to masturbate to orgasm so they could see what what her brain looks like.

then u have the folks who have told a couple to go at and timed them to find the average intravaginal latency time (the average time a guy lasts inside a girl before he busts a nut, which is 5 mins if anyone is wondering).

there is always the inexperienced newb, such as myself whose sole knowledge of sex comes from what his buddies have told him (definitely lots of tall tales there) and from watching pornhub videos.

**WildChild** · 10-28-2010 11:38 PM

Originally Posted by obnoxious

there is always the inexperienced newb, such as myself whose sole knowledge of sex comes from what his buddies have told him (definitely lots of tall tales there) and from watching pornhub videos.

You'd do better t oread some books on tantra. It will serve you far better.