Too Wet

**ce_dukes** · 10-28-2010 03:03 PM

My vagina gets very wet, which I never really thought of as a problem or had an issue with until recently. Before we became intimate my boyfriend said he had a high sex drive and loved giving oral sex. We have sex at least once a week but he rarely goes down on me. When I finally asked him why he said it was because I get too wet, which makes sex, especially oral, less enjoyable. He loves me and has told me not to worry about it but this has really started affecting me because there's nothing that I know of that I can do stop from getting too wet and I feel like I am a letdown to him for ruining what should be enjoyable acts. Any advice, please?

**Jimbeau** · 10-28-2010 09:48 PM

Originally Posted by ce_dukes

When I finally asked him why he said it was because I get too wet, which makes sex, especially oral, less enjoyable

It can't be the taste as it's pretty innocuous. Does he fear drowning?

**ItsASecret** · 10-28-2010 09:57 PM

I get super super wet when my bf goes down on me as well and I literally cannot feel a thing due to so much lubrication, he also says sometimes it is a bit much but honestly the simple solution?...wipe it off. Use a towel, your hand, a kleenex or whatever but once you wipe it will no longer be there.

**WildChild** · 10-28-2010 11:21 PM

It's really a matter of perspective. Getting wet means you are turned on. A lot of men find that a turn on.

**maverick** · 10-29-2010 07:32 AM

Originally Posted by WildChild

It's really a matter of perspective. Getting wet means you are turned on. A lot of men find that a turn on.

Absolutely true. I'm one of them. I don't understand the OP's BF finding that it makes oral less pleasurable. Unless he is under you, the moisture does what gravity tells it to do and thus, is mostly avoidable. By any means, I just regard the increased lubrication as the equivalent of a cheering section. And that's a good thing.

**sarahlizzie** · 10-31-2010 09:59 AM

I also get quite wet, but I have never had men ever find it atall unenjoyable, it can make sex abit more difficult because the man will slip out sometimes but all the men I have been with get that much more excited because it shows your very turned on by them. One issue I have had though is men with a bit smaller manhood slipped out more often, but all you have to do is find the right position to keep it in. And as for oral, just get him to whip before as suggested.

**Lil Bird** · 10-31-2010 05:15 PM

I can get "too wet" at times but I have never had a complaint from my boyfriend. We talked about this once and he said, "It turns me on baby, it lets me know i'm turning you on." So since then it hasn't really been an issue. BUT, at times it can be annoying so i just grab a klenex and wipe a little, then we're good to go!

jr · 10-31-2010 05:49 PM

From another man who's lover gets "too wet" (so wet that I am unable to ejaculate in missionary...not enough friction), tell him to get over it ! Tell him that you still enjoy/expect oral and that it is an important part of your intimacy. If you're not opposed to being "dried off" then what's the problem?

It's very difficult for me and my partner because I'm in the middle of thrusting and can't really take the time to "dry" her off, especially if she is near orgasm which is quite frequently.

**Shanny23** · 11-01-2010 03:39 AM

I get really wet during sex and my bf just hates it

Help me please!! Tips as well

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