G-spot

**shweedart** · 10-31-2010 06:06 PM

I just CAN NOT stimulate nor find my bloody G-spot, using a vibrator or otherwise.

When I have sex, its fine, We get it...but the days I just wanna treat myself (which is most days I wont lie...constant horn!) I'm left to settle for the fizzy clitoral orgasm. I enjoy it but it's like Going out for a BigMac...and coming back with a ham sandwhich. Yummy, but not what I fancy!

Anyone else?

**ItsASecret** · 10-31-2010 06:15 PM

Stick your index finger up in the air. See the two lines showing 2 joints in your finger when you bend it? Your G-spot is located at roughly the spot of the second joint if you were to put your finger inside your vagina, on the upper wall of your vagina facing your stomach of course. Same applies to your middle finger if you use that one instead. It can take some maneuvering with the "come hither" type motion once inside of you but that roughly 2 inches inside your vagina is where the g spot will be. I am sure you know from trying to find it that it is not some 'omg omg I found it!' spot in a split second. It takes some arousing to engorge and fully find.

**shweedart** · 10-31-2010 06:23 PM

Yeah I know all that

but thankyou. I know how far it should roughly be in, what finger motions to make, what positions best for reaching...I've dedicated hours and to no avail

I've been in the mood, even watched porn, read erotic stories etc.

Hmph

**Lil Bird** · 10-31-2010 07:27 PM

I have a problem with this too. I like to watch porn when I masterbate... helps a lot! I can never find the G-Spot, so like you, i am forced to settle for the clitoral orgasm. My boyfriend hit this one time I believe because it felt unlike anything I have ever felt before. All he did was insert his index and middle fingers and then rubbed them on the top of my vagina. This is kind of hard for me to do by myself though!

**shweedart** · 10-31-2010 07:29 PM

My boyfriend's mr smug when it comes to my G-spot cos he knows where it is and I don't haha He's got a whooooolllleeee orgasm in his favour

**Lil Bird** · 10-31-2010 07:51 PM

Sounds like you guys need to get together and let him give you some pointers on where to find it at. Haha, speaking of, I think I will ask mine! That might be fun.

jr · 10-31-2010 08:25 PM

The G-Spot is essentially a bean shaped area of nerve tissue, located about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of a women's cervix.
The size and location of the G-Spot will vary between women, but it usually lies about 1.5" to 3" inside the vagina.
This area inside the vagina has a different texture; it's ridged, not smooth like the rest of the vagina, and when aroused has a spongy feel.
The G-Spot is not easily located. Sometimes even women have a hard time finding it and some don't even believe it exists, but it does.
Locating the G Spot
To explore and find the G spot, lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under your buttocks for comfort.
Insert your fingers into your vagina towards your navel. This will be between 1.5 - 3" inches inside the vagina to find the exact spot.
Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. As it's surrounded by tissue and deep in the vaginal wall, you will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will swell.
Slide your fingers from side to side. You will know when you hit the right spot!

I certainly don't claim to be an expert, but I do spend a lot of time pleasuring my partner by massaging hers.

**shweedart** · 11-01-2010 03:52 PM

Well when I try and stimulate what I think is my g-spot...its a spongy ridgy area...but it doesn't feel good to put pressure on or touch really....if anything it hurts a tad and makes me need to pee!

**ItsASecret** · 11-01-2010 05:14 PM

...and makes me need to pee!

Yeah that is the iconic hitting the G-spot feeling. Sometimes it is not going to cause this grand explosion of pleasure, you may already have made the association that when your bf does it is the only time you will get the mass pleasure (without you purposely making that association). All you can do is keep trying different things since you do technically know where it is.