Weak ejaculations

**stressed** · 11-01-2010 11:44 PM

Any idea what causes weak ejaculations? I'm talking about the kind of flow that just drips, every single time. Always.

Can this be caused by a certain masturbation habit, such as getting used to ejaculating in the hand (more or less within the penis itself, if that makes any sense) without letting it out and just flushing it in the toilet afterwards?

I'm sorry for being so graphic, I'm just very puzzled and too tired to look it up.

I'm not interested in how it can affect pregnancy, I'm only wondering if there's a chance I'll ever get to see anything more than just dripping in this relationship or if I'll have to turn to porn for it... (yes, call me selfish).

**Hopeless Dork** · 11-01-2010 11:53 PM

Could he be dehydrated? Is there a lot of build up before the orgasm? Maybe you could try keeping him in an aroused state for a bit longer, more teasing, edge out his orgasm and that might lead to an explosion. If its been a while since he came, or even if it hasn't.. if you bring him to the edge...then STOP, then make him feel all good again... get him right to the edge... STOP... repeat a few times ... that generally leads to a much powerful squirting scenerio.

Just like women how sometimes you can rush through your arousal and come but its not as powerful as when you build up to it... let it feel as good as possible without going over the top... then bringing it back up again... til you can't take it anymore... the orgasm is DYANAMIC when you tease yourself... maybe that will help?

**stressed** · 11-01-2010 11:59 PM

What if he always rushes to ejaculate when he feels it's close? He almost hates too much build up as if he feels his penis will explode and he's worried about it (his words).

When I tried very long sessions with a lot of build up he eventually either lost his erection or still ejaculated this way. But I can always try again in the future, at some point... ah, me having to do the work again

Thank you!

**WildChild** · 11-02-2010 12:04 AM

Ah,
yes.
Well you know all those stories about exploding penises.
No wonder he is worried.

**stressed** · 11-02-2010 12:13 AM

He once read a story, several years ago, about a guy who broke his penis when his g/f was on top. It took us/me YEARS to make him get over that fear...

Jesus Christ, I have no chance, do I...

Might as well give up totally. It doesn't work...

**WildChild** · 11-02-2010 12:17 AM

ROTHFLMAO

I know I shouldn't. You must be truly frustrated.

What would he do if he had something real to worry about?

**Hopeless Dork** · 11-02-2010 12:23 AM

If its hard for him to cum, when he gets close he probably wants to rush to the finish line like its more of accomplishing a goal then just experiencing great pleasures. He needs to stop looking at sex like a sport or a job where he must obtain goals and instead sit back relax and enjoy the tingles, all the little waves that crash over him until that big tsunami hits.

I know when I am close to orgasm its that few seconds before it that feel the best...when it feels as good as it can possibly feel right before the fireworks.. I love riding that feeling out as long as possible and so I try to do the same for my guy... which usually leads to some powerful explosions.

**stressed** · 11-02-2010 12:33 AM

Originally Posted by WildChild

ROTHFLMAO

I know I shouldn't. You must be truly frustrated.

What would he do if he had something real to worry about?

Oh, my, you've no idea. It IS laughable at this stage.

That's a good question. I should probably insist on sending him to the doctor in case they do find something real to make him worry about. I'm out of ideas.

Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork

If its hard for him to cum, when he gets close he probably wants to rush to the finish line like its more of accomplishing a goal then just experiencing great pleasures. He needs to stop looking at sex like a sport or a job where he must obtain goals and instead sit back relax and enjoy the tingles, all the little waves that crash over him until that big tsunami hits.

I know when I am close to orgasm its that few seconds before it that feel the best...when it feels as good as it can possibly feel right before the fireworks.. I love riding that feeling out as long as possible and so I try to do the same for my guy... which usually leads to some powerful explosions.

Sex for him is only to ejaculate and ejaculating is his accomplishment. If he's not certain he will he's not interested and when he does he feels as if I got equal pleasure out of it too. By what I've read, men tend to see ejaculation as an accomplishment that satisfies both partners, regardless of how much pleasure they've given.

I wonder if this has to do with the man or the occasion. It doesn't have to be anything extraordinary, or something out of a porn film, but it can't be normal if it's like that every time. But one can always try!

jr · 11-02-2010 06:18 AM

Has he consulted with a physician? It could be something medical. Have you tried to abstain, and have him abstain from masturbating for several days to see if his flow increases?

Too many men either confuse or use orgasm/ejaculate to mean the same thing. They are very different.

What about just focusing on your needs?

**Beautiful Disaster** · 11-02-2010 07:17 AM

I know I've said it before (and you didn't answer, hehehe) but given this and everything else about this fellar......... why is it that you are with him?

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